We've all had that fantastic woman in our lifetimes. You acknowledge... the one with the fabulous personality, the really nice hair and a ideal face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?



While gentlemen are mainly attracted to women based on their appears, a woman finds a man charismatic because of his personality. A mastered man is an important male who's confident in himself and not concerned to take the lead and get what he wishes out of life.

Ironically, what this ways then is that the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has attained you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should get from a mentality of high treasure. Never come from a place of neediness.

So the world-class positions to have towards any one certain woman are:

Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are lots of other birds out there who are as as good as she is.)

The lowest line is that a woman should never be a dispute for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

In addition to ordering a high appreciate on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your friendly network. Make supporters with as many women as you can. (Women are ready to make friends with.)

Also date as many women as you can... don't limit yourself only to dating "that one particular girl."

You discover, the last thing you ever want to have proceeding through your brain when you're around that tremendous woman is, "God, I MUST gain this girl! She's irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life will resolve that problem.

Likewise, whenever a woman realise that other chicks are appealed to a guy, she too experiences attraction. Psychologically, this is acknowledged as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.

Ever discovered how your female supporters dribble over the guy at the corner of the bar who's taken four babes at his table? That's multi-ethnic validation in action.

By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.

Here's the essential though... you must always remind yourself that there are Sets of other women out there who are just as special as that girl you genuinely like.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her drop off magnet to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's brilliant. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.

So think, place a high value on yourself, make her get your attention, and hang out with as many women as attainable... those are the three mysteries for how to get a girl to like you.