Having to train up a child in this microwave age is an enormous task. Every parent wants to be in several places and yet be there for their children. It is no wonder why lots of parents faced a lot of disappointment in facing their teenage children. Lot of parents is engulfed in their own word that they are not quite certain if they fit in into their children babbling lives. Children learn best when adult knows and fit in into their children lives. They learn better where vivid, concise, firm, and consistent direction is elaborated to them. To discipline your childBefore you are a good guide you need to know with much persuasion what you want to demand it. So your first inclination is to clarify in your mind what you want and then clarify what clarified instruction would be for the children. And then go ahead and affirm it.Most times you have to very plain as simple as you can break the instruction down. Your children will take your instruction lightly when they notice discrepancy in your behavioral pattern. You can be firm today on an instruction and be negligent about it tomorrow; you need to observe yourself or ask your pattern to observe you.For instance when clear instruction like this is given:"Peter I need you to wash the dishes in ten minute", it is clear and direct instruction. You need to be follow it "Peter please help me to wash the dishes now [just after ten minutes time] Be firm about it, the instruction bother on the immediate. You cannot afford to be negligent about your instruction. You need affirm that it is thoroughly carried out. Once you give instruction to children be alert to the details of the instruction and not be distracted from affirming its performance. Once children affirm that you get distracted quite often from enforcing your instruction they won't respect such instruction. When you need immediate result from them you can be sure you would be disappointed. No wonder, in this age many children cannot follow simple instruction. Be firm not callous If you are not a parent that is consistent with firmness, you need to learn to; if just for the case of your children. All instructions had to be maintained by firmness.To ensure you can consistently maintain firmness you need to identify what firmness mean to you. Firmness basically implies that you certain, definite, and determined, emblazoned with passion and kindness. Letting your children know when a decision is made it cannot be played around with. It is about been immediate; not later. You need to affirm that your decision is not seen as perhaps, maybe next time or soon decisions. If it is then you need to change this. You might just be the one at fault in your children not complying with instructions. This is because you can be passing dual information to them. Resolve in your mind to be conscious of your decisions. Watch your spouse and allow your spouse to watch you. Don't let your children manipulate your weakness to get their ways. Your lives and your home will be peaceful It is common among children that they know how to respect their parents' boundaries especially when they know their parents are firm. So you need to be firm first before administering firm parenting discipline.No matter the instruction s long as it is clear and precise; you need to follow it through. Be sure to say the instruction in a clear and firm tone. It ensures that you mean as you said.Be consistent in instructionAgain you cannot train what you are not practicing. Be clarified what consistency means to you before embarking on training your kids. Consistency means being reliable as well as dependable. The opposite is unpredictable, contradictory, and changeable. How to be viewed by children depends on the image you present to them.It would definitely take time to be clear, firm and consistent in your direction for yourself and affirming it for your children. However, it is the only means to enforce a discipline home.In summary, parenting discipline, we are able to train our children in the fatal ingredient necessary for life. They can face the future having self control, self discipline and self reliant Meaning not to over indulge them. Encourage learning through personal experience and observation even when it means mistakes are made. Adhering to these principles; clarity of instructions, firmness and consistency improve you, your children and your home.