on either extreme. But most of us do not know the answer because we are unaware of our subtle behavior. All right, let me ask



you. Suppose you are doing house cleaning and you drop a costly vase costing thousands of dollars? What would you do with

yourself? Beat yourself mentally for being a fool, or say -everybody makes a mistake. What is done cannot be undone. I will take

care next time. Let me not beat myself about this. Let me give my mind some peace now? Your reaction to some situations decides

your personality and your success. Let me tell you how. Let us quiz first about your attitude.

Quiz your self-esteem - what kind of self-esteem do you have? Do you consider yourself as just an average or somebody destined

to do big? Do you value yourself or degrade? Do you focus on your strengths or the weaknesses? Your self-esteem decided s your

behavior at critical times. If you have high self-esteem, criticism will not be able to hurt you much; otherwise any body that

decides to criticize you will make your life hell. Please quiz yourself about your self-esteem and raise it as much as you can.

Quiz yourself about love - do you love yourself or not? Suppose you love a person very dearly and he/she makes a mistake. You

will not only forgive that person but also pamper to remove the hurt. Do you do that with yourself? Or do you beat yourself

whenever you make mistakes? Self-love is a very important quality. I am not talking about obsession, but healthy self-love. Quiz

yourself about your self-love. Next time, when you make a blunder, pause and watch your immediate feelings. Are they of

pampering or beating? Please pamper yourself. If you do not pamper yourself, why would the world do?