Are you sure that your partner has faith in you? For example, if you leave your mail box open and go out for sometime, do you believe that your partner will not surf through the mails and find out whom you are corresponding with? Let us take another example. Try talking to somebody in very low voice on telephone. Do this intentionally. Do you think that your partner will ask you about who you were talking with? I am leading towards one common factor- faith. Does your partner have implicit faith in you?



There are two types of relationships. In one kind the partners have unquestioning faith in each other. In another kind, the partners do not suspect each other of any wrong doing, but do not have faith. For example, if a partner comes late at night, in one case the other partner will worry about the reasons of delay. In another case, the partner will suspect that some affair may be on. What kind of relationship you have? What kind of faith does your partner have in you?

Faith is the main pillar of a relationship. Without faith everything el se looses its value. Develop faith in your partner and assure your partner with your words and behavior that he/she can have full faith in you. Openness is most important for that. Whatever you do, do it openly. Do not play any games. Slowly both of you will begin developing faith in each other. Always look out for anything that may create suspicion and kill the suspicion in the beginning itself to have a great relationship.