Once you’ve selected your guy or gal for the threesome of your choice, you'll need to throw in some irresistible seduction tactics! According to the dictionary “flirting" means “acting amorously without serious intention." Flirting can be a harmless way of testing your attractiveness to another individual. It can be a prelude to a sweet seduction. Flirting for a threesome is very similar to how you used to flirt earlier. The only difference when flirting as a couple, you’ve got someone to give you a hand. Two heads are better than one; when it comes to flirting for a threesome this old cliche is definitely applicable!

Advantages of Flirting for a Threesome

In the “normal" world you'd basically stop flirting the moment you find a steady partner right? Getting married and gaining weight seem to go hand in hand, doesn’t it? Once we find our steady partner many of us seem stop caring about our physical appearance. This is caused by familiarity! Although we don’t want to admit it, familiarity breeds laziness and before we know it we suddenly wake up and discover that we’re no longer together with the same person we married with a few years earlier.

One of the great advantages of threesomes is that the element of "familiarity" doesn’t take over your life! You’re always open for ways to look your best in order to seduce other gorgeous candidates. This side effect means that you’ll watch over your physical appearance more than “normal" people do.

Below I’ve listed 12 great flirting tips to help you make that first connection with your candidate; make sure you use them to improve your recreational possibilities.

12 Great Flirting Tips

1. Make sure you feel the King or Queen of the World. You know you’re looking fabulous and your absolute best and you’re feeling that everything you want is coming your way! Yeah baby! Wear an outfit that makes you feel really sexy, self-assured and confident.

2. The great thing about flirting for a threesome as a couple is, that you can use the buddy system; Walk through a group of people and your partner can watch to see who's checking you out.

3. Regardless whether you’re flirting for a guy or a girl, when you’re flirting as a couple let the woman initiate the flirting. Guys love to be approached by women and women feel less threatened by another woman initiating conversation, rather than a man. Especially when they can see that the guy is with another woman.

4. Wear that special perfume or cologne. Remember the olfactory sense awakens the strongest sexual primitive instincts.

5. Gals should wear their sexiest lingerie and guys their sexiest briefs. Just wearing these will put you in the right state of mind. You are irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.

6. Be certain! If you’re not, just act that way! Certainty is always a turn-on. Your body posture must also reflect certainty!

7. Be forward and decisive in your communication. However remember to be tactful. Advance step-by-step towards your goal, but remember to pay attention to the subtle signals of your candidates.

8. Don’t shy away of eye-contact. Initiate it; again, this demonstrates your certainty which is a sexy thing! Don’t stare though; with sexy eye-contact I mean eye-contact that is slightly longer than then the regular eye-contact.

9. Be open! Initiate conversation. Ask open-ended questions; this shows sincere interest in him/her. Give room for a nice chat.

10. Show interest first in the other person’s interests; then talk about yourself, without bragging!

11. Once the other person has opened up be sure to be a good listener. Good listening skills are good flirting skills.

12. Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have fun!

Suzy Bauer