Students attend the extra classes after the school hours. The clerk of the school office comes earlier and goes late from the office. The principal is anxious about the result of the school. The teachers devote their vacan periods in correction work. Why is there such a struggle in the temple of learning (school). The idea underlying this struggle is to make life happy and prosperous.
The question arises what happiness is. Is happiness to possess wealth? Does poverty lead to happiness? Do you think that pleasure is happiness? The experience of life gives negative answer to all these questions. The rich who have all comforts and luxuries are not free form cares and anxieties. The poor struggle for their bread and butter. Those who mistake pleasure of happiness do blunder. Then what is happiness? Happiness is a thing which cannot be defined. It is a relative term. What is happiness to me, may be trouble for you. The drunkard feels happy in wine which i hate from the core of my heart.
Let us see whether pleasure leads us to happiness because the world is running after pleasure. In reality pleasure and happiness have no relation with each other. Pleasure is temporary while happiness is everlasting. I eat sweets and get pleasure. They fail to give me happiness. Happiness is the aim of life, while the pleasure is a hurdle in the way which leads to happiness. Our senses feel the pleasure but they cannot lead us to happiness. Pleasure is external, while happiness is internal.
There are few things which, in my opinion, make our life happy. The first is health. I hear people saying. ?When wealth is lost, nothing is lost, when health is lost, something is lost.? The loss of health makes us unhappy. The last words of one of the richest men of the world give us the idea of the importance of health. While dying he said. ?I shall cheerfully give up my all if I can but enjoy a good meal.?
The second important factor of happiness is peace and contentment. We should remain satisfied with what we have. A contented man never feels jealous of the wealth of others. Freedom from worries and anxieties leads us to happiness. A beggar living on alms he gets is happier than a rich man who rolls in wealth. Satisfaction is life and dissatisfaction is death.
Social service is a third factor of happiness. In order to be happy we must have a spirit of social service. The strong should help the weak, and the rich should help the poor. All great men found peace and happiness in the social work.
The religious and the pious life is the fourth factor of happiness. It gives us peace and happiness. Religion is the matter of heart and not of sense. A happy man is he who surrenders himself to God.
Last but not the least is some noble work which gives us happiness. We should spend leisure hours in reading good books. We should develop tasts for artistic things like painting and music. These things will create atmosphere for true happiness.
Secret Of Happy Life
Change is inevitable. That is the law of nature. The natural process of aging is gradual and those who are near and dear to you seldom notice the changes.
The fact remains that you are growing old. With advancing years your lifestyle too should be re-oriented in such a manner that you do not put unnecessary strain on the diminishing reserves of your body.
Moderation in everything that you do is the key-word. You may continue with your activities but do it in moderation. Health plays a major part in the lives of the elderly but unfortunately another aspect that is often overlooked is the "Environment". If due importance is given to this aspect then, many other problems such as Accidents, Loneliness, Health etc. could be easily managed.
Some major environmental problems that should be high priority when you retire are:
1. Finding a suitable place to live after retirement should be priority No.1 Larger cities are good for the younger people but the Retirees should consider moving out to a pollution free town or village in the outskirts of the city.
2. Choose a place not too far from your friends and relatives so that they could be of assistance whenever needed.
3. Ground floor is the best for the elderly. Split level houses should be avoided. If there are steps, good hand rails should be provided.
4. The house should be well ventilated and provide plenty of sunlight.
5. The floors should be well carpeted. Worn out carpets are dangerous since you could trip and fall.
6. Electric wiring should be permanent and all electrical gadgets should be in good working order.
7. Avoid loose and long clothing. Many accidents are caused by tripping and falling. Fractures and injuries during old age could take a longer time to heal and be a source of worry and agony.
8. Clothing should always be appropriate to the season. Inappropriate clothing can lead to health conditions such as, body pain,arthritis, chest cold etc.
9. Entertaining of guests and socializing should also be done in moderation. The consequences of exertion and heavy drinking can be detrimental to your health.
10. Keep your mental faculties active.
One of the best ways to keep yourself well informed, mentally active and to have fun is to spend time on the Internet. The whole wide world is at your finger tips if you can operate the computer. If you are unable to use a computer, it is advisable to take a few lessons that will make you quite proficient in using the computer and the Internet. Sending e-mails to friends, reading the latest international news and visiting interesting websites can be fun. In fact you can even earn an Additional Income. Full details are given in the article, Practical Internet Home Based Business Ideas, for the Young and 50 Plus Entrepreneurs : http://www.business-fromhome.com/article671.html
Old age should not in any way mean that you must give up participating in community activities. It has to be in moderation, that is all. Your lifestyle might have changed but your experience, knowledge and expertise will be needed and much appreciated by your community. Share it with them, enjoy yourself and make life happy and pleasant for the others too.
Change in lifestyle and environment during retirement does have certain emotional under currents such as missing your long time neighbors, some of your old friends and of course some of your favorite haunts. Unfortunately certain changes have to be made in a changing world and changing circumstances.
Make these changes in the right spirit and enjoy your retired life.
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