According to the US National Committee for Quality Health Assurance, more than 11 million Americans (about 1 in 20) have major depression. Interestingly, only about half of these are still taking medication six months after being diagnosed. If these wonder drugs are so great, why do so many people stop taking them? Could it be that they are not getting the results they want or people are getting fed up with the unwanted side effects?
As no single antidepressant has been shown to be any more effective than any other, the choice of which drug to prescribe is often based on their different side effects! These often include weight gain, headaches, nausea, stomach pain, loss of libido ? and the list goes on.
All forms of depression affect a person's thoughts, actions and physical health, and this is a condition that is experienced by an ever growing number in our society.
Fortunately, today, more and more people are turning to other (healthier and less expensive) options to overcome depression (& other debilitating conditions), including relaxation methods, exercise, enjoying music, reading inspiring books, doing their own research to find out what works for them, counselling, and natural medicine.
The habit of taking pills to make oneself feel better - to have more energy, to relax, and to experience a general feeling of well being ? is now a widely accepted, daily habit/ ritual in many Western countries. The downside is that the underlying condition or reason behind the need or desire for drugs does not change or get better as a result of taking pill, and of course all the unwanted side effects. However, there are alternatives, and the good news is that these options come without negative side effects, and are not habit forming!
The Physical Side
While it is true that conditions in our physical bodies sometimes need prescription drugs, (or natural alternatives) to counteract the effects of imbalance which lead to high levels of stress, organic weaknesses, painful muscles, and even disease, it is also true that there is much that we can do to help ourselves and our bodies feel and work better. Much of this is related to the way we think, the daily choices we make, and the emotions that we regularly experience.
Mental & Emotional Health
As humans it is natural to desire the good things life has to offer: vibrant health, energy, good communication with others, a great job, financial abundance, the home, the car, wonderful vacations, and of course the ideal relationship. However it is difficult to be successful and reach our goals when our mind and emotions are out of balance; when we don't have clear goals, or a system in place to reach those goals once we clarify them.
Taking Back Control
"The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do." --Walter Bagehot
The first step in gaining control of one's life, one's health ? physical, mental and emotional ? and one's destiny is a very simple one? to make the decision to do just that! The good news is that you don't have to do this on your own; others have trodden the same path, faced the same (or similar) challenges and triumphed; reaching goals they previously thought were only pipe dreams, and living the life they thought was only possible for others? who were more privileged, clever or got the right breaks. And many of these individuals then chose to share the methods they found worked best for them, to inspire and genuinely assist others to achieve a much higher level of happiness and success in their lives ? on every level.
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." --Henry David Thoreau
One such person is Genevieve Dawid: international consultant and mentor ? to both individuals and blue chip corporations. To achieve the wonderful success that she now enjoys today though, Genevieve first had to overcome far more obstacles than the average person ? born with feet both the wrong way round, orphaned at birth, dyslexic (difficulties in correctly reading and interpreting written words) and dyspraxic (severe difficulty performing tasks requiring fine motor skills such as drawing or writing) and diabetic ? to name just a few of her challenges.
With a wonderful support system from her adoptive parents, and a true indomitable spirit and inborn highly positive approach to life and all it threw at her, instead of giving up, or resorting to drugs (by far the easier option!) with great persistence, Genevieve overcame her many challenges. Later on she also experienced harassment from some senior executives in response to her dyslexia when working as a consultant in London, the deaths of several close family members, including her own triplets, and the severe depression that followed, which she described ?like being down the darkest of holes.? In spite of all this, she always ?knew? there was light at the end of the tunnel?
Instead of throwing in the towel she continued to look to the future, learned how to think differently about things, and developed a unique blueprint for going beyond daily obstacles, and most importantly, attracting everything that she wanted to have in life ??boldly following her dreams.
Now she has the luxury lifestyle she previously only dreamed about; including the man, the car, the houses, the vacations?!
If you have a desire for change, but feel you need some direction and inspiration ??from someone who is not only highly successful and happy, but truly empathises with your situation; someone who can point you in the right direction and provide tried and tested methods for achieving the lifestyle you really want??I invite you to have a look at ?The Achiever's Journey,?at www.theachieversjourney.com
Self Help Book Publishers
However, the very first thing we discussed was not the way out, but how he'd got himself into the mess in the first place - particularly as he already had a strong grasp of how we use our minds to create the lives we want. Surely, this was not the life he wanted.
I will not go into the private details of a client's life here - suffice it to say that he had walked himself in to most of his problems with his eyes wide open. He had made elementary errors of judgement in buying his current business, he had trusted people who the evidence before his very eyes would shout "don't trust this guy", he had made investments that promised returns that were "too good to be true" (generally those kind of returns are!) and almost lost everything he had invested.
During the course of our conversation, I pointed out to him that the knowledge and understanding he has (of how one can harness their mental energy to create the life they want) is like a lethal weapon if placed in the wrong hands. Adolf Hitler knew what kind of life he wanted and went about creating it with all the single-mindedness of an exceptionally successful person, but few would agree that what he created was ideal for either himself or those whose lives he touched!! I pointed out to my client that intellectually understanding how your mind and the world works is not good enough - you need to experience it firsthand. In fact, an intellectual understanding, without the experiential, is a disaster waiting to happen.
Why? Because you start seeing opportunities that aren't there, you start pandering to your own greed for a life of success that's measured on other people's terms. You start leaping mindlessly into outrageous situations because you think (intellectually) that you're being mindful. You cannot see the wood for the trees.
I always explain to my clients that they need to be extraordinarily careful what they wish for. I always propose a framework for their goals and dreams that suggests that they should seek happiness in their work, work which is well paid, work that positively touches the lives of others. They should seek wonderful personal relationships, a happy personal life, lots of time spent doing what really turns them on and that they should be at peace with themselves.
And, yet , here was a client, far from unique, who had shot straight out into the fast lane towards greed - thinking that he understood how his mind works, but not actually putting it into practice. He told me that he brushed his teeth and ate his breakfast mindfully each morning. But we all know people who go to Church on Sunday and go out and trample over people's lives on Monday. Any idiot can eat a bowl of breakfast cereal mindfully. Not every idiot can sit through a business meeting or key investment consultation without their mind straying into distraction and, too often, greed.
As I said to my client, how come the "self-help" or "personal development" sectors of the publishing industry are the fastest growing? How come every book shops' shelves groan with tons of "popular psychology" and "mind-body-spirit" books? And how come the world seems to be in a bigger mess than ever?
Have large numbers of people intellectually understood how one can create the "life of your dreams", but not actually put mindfulness - the only key to effortless living - into daily practice? Have people missed the point that a "work/life balanced" inner happiness concept of success is what is best for all of us - and, in the process, mistaken, like "normal people", material gain for success? Does the evidence of what has happened in the world's banking sector, investment markets and even residential property markets provide evidence that greed is misconstrued as success?
Of course, we shouldn't be surprised that, as the only species on the planet that's obsessed with money, even the "self-help industry's" definition of success often puts money first. Books like "The Secret" encourage you to write yourself a cheque from "The Bank of the Universe" for some outrageous amount and stick it on your refrigerator. One of that book's contributors, sells fake $1m bills on his website. Google "Personal Development" and you'll find that most sites results talk about trebling your income or financial freedom.
They're all way off the mark - and so are you if you think that happiness and success come from some intellectual understanding of how the world works mixed with a pinch of financial greed. No wonder we have all those self-help books and the world is in a bigger mess than ever! No wonder people have confused success and money.
We need to practice mindfulness throughout the course of our everyday lives - starting with a few minutes meditation each morning - but then ensuring that we carry that clarity of mind into our daily relationships, our place of work, our family and friends, our work, rest and play. We need to set aside our base obsession with money and having enough of it (whatever that means!) - we need to take stock of what's really important to us and focus our minds, mindfully, on just that.
Then, maybe then, people will start practicing and experiencing mindfulness - rather than intellectually understanding it. When that happens, it will make a world of difference.
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