Marina cannot relax if whatever she does is not perfect. Of course, nothing is ever perfect and thus Marina is usually in a very tense state. This attachment creates for her anxiety, fear, and a continual sense of danger.
This tension is transferred to her husband, Dan, who cannot understand why it takes Marina so long to do something, and why is it so important for her to do it over and over. He believes she is wasting her life away on details and losing the essence.
She, on the other hand, is usually angry with him because he does pay enough attention to details, which are important to her, especially when it pertains to order and cleanliness.
He feels suppressed by her constant nagging and is annoyed by her habitual tardiness. She is angry with him because he does not help her, and he is in angry with her because she is causing him to waste time in details that are not important.
What could they need to learn in order to create happiness and harmony?
Marina:
Could she need to learn some of the following lessons:
That her worth as a person is not dependent upon the results of her efforts or what others think about her?
That she is not more lovable because she has done more, or done it more perfectly?
To accept herself exactly as she is?
To accept and love others exactly as they are? To realize that the results of any endeavor are produced by many factors, one of which is her effort?
To offer all the results up to the Divine?
To discontinue measuring herself in comparison to others?
To make time for relaxation and reflection in her life?
To free herself from past experiences that may have programmed these feelings within her?
To see herself and all others as immortal souls in the process of evolution who are learning through every experience?
Dan:
Could he need to learn some of the following lessons:
To understand Marina's needs and help her satisfy them?
To help her get free from her needs?
To express clearly what he can do and what he cannot?
To express his needs and feelings without accusing Marina?
To pay more attention to details?
To go about with his program and not wait for Marina when she is late?
To accept and love her as she is?
With self-analysis and love, they can work this out.
She Is A Star
Since houses became multi-purpose halls and started being more than the place to rest than they originally were, demands for house maintenance escalated to a higher number, from home steam carpet cleaners, oriental rug cleaners and upholstery, to water and fire restoration services, cleaning has become more than a necessity, but also a lifestyle. Examples of house maintenance services are commercial carpet cleaners and carpet and rug cleaners. They specialize in the maintenance of feet upholstery.
You might ask how houses became multi-purpose halls. Way back, houses are considered to be the private haven of the family that lives within. The sacred domain, the peaceful sanctuary that he goes home to after a very work-tiring day. But now, it could be a venue for get-togethers and parties, meetings, project conventions, bonding sessions, movie marathons and more.
Somebody's room could very well turn from a nightly personal relaxation area to a daily hangout, the family kitchen from the cook haven to a place where the kids experiment on their school projects. The garden can be a private yoga area or a hobby zone for mother but will later on become a practice area for the children's sports. The house is transformed, so we need to make sure it serves its purpose. How?
Proper maintenance.
Put it this way: take for example an average family is consisted of five people, the amount of dirt they produce and accumulate is, if put into percentage amounts to eighty percent (80%) daily. Multiply this twice or more, and that's the amount of dirt that the house gets everyday. Imagine that much dust and grime, and you would probably run out of the house and find the nearest cleaning company you could find fast enough.
From rugs and carpets to tabletops and cabinets, these companies know more about cleaning than we do. For them, cleaning means maintenance or preservation. A deeper understanding as to why we do cleaning in the first place aside from the obvious reason of being hygienic and to keep our place nice for our visitors and of course, for our family and for ourselves.
At whatever point you look, our house is still our home. If you are leaving in solitude and do not think you can accumulate as much dust and dirt, think again. Seen old houses lately, with the furniture and appliances all covered in white blanket? Try whipping the blankets on air, and you will see have a very cloudy atmosphere.
Keeping our houses clean is a sign that we indeed care for the people around us, be they our family or friends or neighbors enough that even the tedious but boring task of cleaning turned into something that we take seriously.
No matter where you are, be it in Asia or the any US state; be it in the African continent or in Toronto, carpet cleaners and other household maintenance services can help you. No need to fret if you are not in the mood to clean up the mess, just find the right cleaners and you're set.
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