After a hard day's work, you decide to head down to the local bar and have a drink while chilling out. Next thing you know, you find a blond in a corner eyeing you. What should your next step be? You are certain that she is checking you out but there always is that possibility that she is just fooling around. You turn away; trying not to notice, but you can still feel her stare surveying your whole body. How then do you know whether she truly is interested in you, or is she just playing with you? How about learning a few signs that you can look out for to determine if she is after you; it will definitely come in handy the next time another girl gives you the hot stares.



You are right to say that women are very unpredictable most of the time especially when it boils down to knowing whether they are interested in you or now; it can actually be rather confusing. However, if you can grasp on the skill of learning how to read a woman's mind and body language correctly, you can actually figure out what they are thinking, and it is that simple. Below are some signs that you should look out for to check if that girl is interested in you.

When a girl is really interested in you, she will most likely be holding her gaze on you when both of your eyes meet. If you're really that ‘attractive', she may even smile at you sweetly and you can already tell her interest in you when you see her looking away shyly when you caught her looking at you.

When you have taken that step to approach her and strike a conversation with her, take note of her attitude. If she is always so bubbly and energetic as she is conversing with you, chances are high that she is interested in you as your presence causes her to be very attentive.

In the meantime, do look out for her body language as well; this would include her leaning against the table or even twirling her hair. If you notice her leaning towards you, it is a very strong sign that she enjoys your company and is interested in you, so look out and if you sense that she has tried leaning towards you when you are talking, maybe she is really having the hots for you!

When you are speaking, notice if she is attentive to what you have to say or not; if you notice that she is looking intently into your eyes as you speak, that is another strong sign that she is interested in you. Try intensifying your gaze towards her and you will find that she will look away shyly at knowing that you found out that she is staring at you. Mind you, this is not reserved just for certain types of girls, but it is the same for almost every girl out there!

As you are talking to her, take note whether or not she is attentive with what you have got to say. If you see that she is intently looking into your eyes as you talk, then it is another strong sign that she is interested with you. Intensify your gaze and she will immediately look away shyly. That is a big sign that she likes you buddy. This works the same way for almost every girl out there. So while you are talking to her, make sure you are able to catch her glance and monitor the expression she looks at you.

However the biggest mistake that guys always make when they are around women is that they love to assume and that is a big no no! Assuming will only lead you to disaster; instead learn to take hints from her body language and behavior. Some girls raise their voice just to catch your attention while others are just more on the quiet side.

Whatever it is, at the end of it all, try your best to notice all these hints since they are not so difficult to spot too.