If you are suspicious that your husband may be cheating on you, let him make as many mistakes as possible as these are all ammunition for you. Do not confront him until you have sufficient evidence to prove your suspicions. You'll find below some of the most important signs that your partner is cheating on you.



1. 90% of cheaters will do so in our own bed at some time during your relationship. If you suspect your husband has been cheating on you in your own home, try making your bed in a particular way, check it every day, if you're husband has been using it with somebody else, you will know as he will have made differently.

2. Enlist one of your girlfriends to help. Make sure it is one that he doesn't know, then get her to hit on him and have her record it. The easiest way to do this is to have her call you answering service just before she starts talking to him, and then you can have the proof on call so to speak.

3. Your husband will more than likely take full advantage of the fact that you are out of town. So you can trick your husband by telling him that you will be going away for a weekend, be sure to give him details of when you are leaving and when you are expected back. Say goodbye, find a good vantage point from which to view your house and wait, you should not have to wait too long.

4. You should be keeping a close eye on all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check everything for unusual transactions. These are sometimes obvious like motel rooms or gifts that you never received. However he may be devious, so check all cash withdrawals, chances are your husband is paying for things with cash to avoid a paper trail, if you notice that the same sum of money is leaving your account at the same time each week, then you can be pretty sure your cheating husband is using it to pay for a room with his new partner.Make note of any strange dates and times.

5. Monitor both his cell phone and your home phone. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Watch how he uses his phone, does he answer it then move out of your earshot, does he take it everywhere with him, including the bathroom. Note whether returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons, or if he always turns off his cell phone when he's with you.

If, after all this you still do not have sufficient evidence to confront your husband, you can try bluffing him. Say something along the lines of, I know what you've been doing and I'll give you one last chance to confess and tell me everything. You may find that he will break down and give you all the information you want, but he will more than likely lie to the end.

I can assure you that your husband will screw up sooner or later you will need to be patient, but remain watchful. An easy way to do this is to hire a PI, however this can be expensive and may not be necessary. My advice is that you follow the above steps, keep a watchful eye for any of these signs, and keep notes of any evidence.