I'm friends with a lot of “Single Moms” so I asked them to tell me a few secrets that make them fall for guys they meet on vacation. So, here's the results of my probing, take heed guys, this could be vital information to fall back on when you're struggling to convince that hot mom you're the one she's been looking for.

Nice vs Bad Guys

Single moms are already over the infatuation with bad boys. It's the younger single women that tend to suffer from “bad boy syndrome”. They're the kind that finds themselves attracted to bad boys and the thrill of being with a guy who's spontaneous and into everything. They see it as a challenge to tame bad boys. For unmarried women with children it's more a case that they've been there and done that. Remember this point - Mr Nice has a far higher chance of impressing and scoring with a single mom.

Sensitivity and Maturity Wins the Day

By and large, single moms have grown out of games, so you should make note, to attract the attentions of a hot single mom you're going to have to act mature – no clowning around! You aren't there to sow your oats, ignore the super sexy bikini models that pass on the beach. Focus all your attention on the mom you desire. Be sincere and show her 100% attention, do not, under any circumstances let your eyes drift to the stunning blonde temptress that walked past!

Remember the Kids!

Don't be discouraged by the presence of her children. They're a tool to strike at her heart, be friendly to them, she'll fall for your charms all the quicker if she see you're good with kids. Getting the kids on your side is a battle winning strategy. If her attention isn't caught on the first pass, be nice to the children, she's sure to notice you then. It's entirely possible they'll want you to meet their mom – bingo. The doorway is open for a flirty first conversation. Acting like the perfect gentlemen in the children's presence will pave the way to get kinky later when they're not around.

Be Sensible

Don't be a joker, have a sensible conversation before making a physical move. You want her to relax and understand that you're not there for one thing only. Be confident, but not arrogant. Remember, she isn't interested in bad boys any more.

A Sense of Humor Always Wins

I mentioned earlier that you should be mature and sensible, on top of this cut out the drama. She has enough to worry about without another baby. Have light conversation, have a sense of humour but don't brag and exaggerate. No one likes a braggart she's seen it all before.

That concludes my findings. Good luck with your mission to snare and pull that hot single mom on your vacation. My final piece of advice for you is to watch the odour. Cigarettes and cigar smoke will ruin things.

Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression, and first impressions last!