Begin with the end in mind. What type of women are you attracted to and you would like to meet? With this in mind, you will then need to think about the places they would like to go to. Go to those paces at different times of the day to see when they are mostly there.



If you are in a small country town, the population is not going to explode over the next week. Don't ever let proximity and convenience be the sole contributor of finding your perfect partner. I'm not saying that there may not be that perfect partner in your home town, but the big cities give you far more choice. Decide and make the move if this is what is holding you back, the lack of choice.

While you are looking, try online chatting. It's a great way to give you practice of conversation topics with real live women throughout the day. The more you practice, the more confident you will have.

And who knows, perhaps you may even meet someone magical online. I know of several couples who had accidentally met online and are now either happily dating or even married.

Most dance classes are also a great way to meet single women. It's also an environment where everything is so informal that there is no pressure to need to always remain on alert to say the right thing at the right time. You can also use this opportunity to practice your humor skills with the many different dance partners you will have.

Now that you are in places where there are literally plenty of women around, how do you approach them?

One approach which I've learnt in the past is to simple tell her that you had noticed her from the other side of the room and just wanted to get to know her.

Another approach I've also used is to ask her for her female perspective on certain controversial topics such as the environment, dating etc etc.

It's important to realize that it's really not just what you say, but how you say it. Your seriousness and calmness will make her comfortable around you and before you know it, a smooth flowing conversation would have been started.

Many men are always very nervous to just walk up to a woman and create a conversation. Just go ahead and make the move. She will be interested in what you say and you will grab her attention.

Never let the fear of rejection keep you from making your first move. If the woman turns out to be rude to you or turns you away, let go without embarrassment and move onto another woman more worth your effort.

You would be far better off anyway to not have to waste time with a woman you would have been turned off by. Persistence does pay.

Beautiful attractive women know it themselves that they have this physical attraction that turns men on. Set yourself apart by not showing that her beauty does not do much for you.

Hide your interest. She will be wondering why you are so different and you have turned the power to your end by her wanting to now get to know you more. You have swapped power positions. She is now attracted to you and not the other way around.

Most importantly, make sure you end the conversation with the end in mind. Getting her contact details or the intention of seeing her again is a must.