Step 1:



Mentally prepare for the occasion. Before you set out to do anything, you have to be ready for it. You can't just jump in blindly and expect to succeed. When you're out for a speed seduction, you have to set your mind and focus on the task at hand. Forget the girls who had rejected you and forget the girls who fell for it either! It's how the girls respond to you NOW that matters.

Step 2:

The next part of speed seduction includes catching her attention and causing an attraction. You can do this by causing a distraction and making yourself stand out in a positive manner. Making eye contact, showing interest via body language and walking right up to her and asking her out can also be highly attractive. Or if you prefer to play it cool, get a waiter to send over a drink and a note beforehand.

Step 3:

Now that you have her attention, whatever little time you have to talk to her, you have to build up to the fast seduction by making a connection with her. Build up a rapport and create an idea of romance. Seduce her into liking you and if you appear to have chemistry then take advantage of it. Remember, it's all about building a sexual connection and mutual interest.

Step 4:

As this is about speed seduction and getting into the thick of things quickly, you have to start moving into the physical territory. Use casual fleeting touches to see if she's into you or even accepting of your touch while you're chatting with her and building up rapport. Try touching her hand briefly when you pass her drink to and see how she reacts to that. Observing how someone reacts to your touch will tell you a lot about whether they're into you or not.

Step 5:

This is the culmination of your seduction and now it's time to get down to the sexual stuff. If you've passed all 4 steps successfully, then you can say that you're both ready for the next step. Steer your conversation towards more sexual topics and get her aroused and into the mood. Subjects you could try to include are fantasies or favorite sexual positions that you could try out together.

Now, it may have taken you 4 steps to get here but building up to the sex does make it worthwhile because of the anticipation involved.