For those of you thinking, "Boy, she needs to get out more," let me explain. My old computer was dying a slow death -- and I'd procrastinated mightily in identifying its replacement. I was nervous: what if the new computer didn't work any better? What if I picked the wrong one? I don't know anything about computers. What if the person I hired to transfer the files did a bad job? My business relies on this computer.
But finally, the reality of my computer's imminent demise overcame my list of worries. I took action – activated my network, found someone to build a machine for me and then transfer all of my files. In short, I had to make several decisions that involved a good-sized chunk of money and the health of my business.
So what made this process fun?
The RISK.
I fell in love with the risk. I was absolutely exhilarated by it. After a life time of hoping to avoid it and trying to circumvent the discomfort associated with it, I embraced it. I said, "Bring it on!" Granted, when I review my life, I see that through the years, I've taken lots of substantial risks, and most of them have worked well. I still dreaded them, but once resigned that I needed to move forward with those various actions, I proceeded in an agonized, albeit effective manner. The computer experience kicked off an internal shift in the way I perceive risk and make decisions. Looking back, I realized that I used the six steps to help me through my computer purchase and set up. Unknowingly, I've used these steps many times before. Perhaps these steps will help you as well.
The next time you're making decisions that feel risky or are making a choice to take risk:
1.Gather information. When faced with any risk, whether you fear it or not, it's imperative to gather the information you need to make informed decisions. Some people struggle at this point, depending on their personality and decision-making habits. Some want to jump into action too quickly, while others get bogged down in the information. Identify your own habits.
2.Look the decision or risk squarely in the face. What do you need to be honest about? What are the facts? What are the assumptions you've made? Do you require a contingency plan?
3.Notice any fear. If fear has crept in (and it probably has), observe it. Is it stopping you from moving forward, standing up for yourself, or expressing your needs or desires? Try jotting down your concerns on a piece of paper. Review each one – which fears are ungrounded? What are you avoiding? Which concerns require action? What would that action be? What support or assistance do you need?
4.Identify the decisions. Usually, any risk involves making a series of smaller decisions that either lead up to the big decision or follow it. Again, note these on paper. What's the logical sequence for decisions? Do you know the decision that you'll make? What obstacles, if any, are in your way? What else do you need to know?
5.Check in with yourself. What's your gut feeling? Tuning in is especially important if you're sitting on the fence or feel forced to take a risk with less information than you'd like. Risk taking inherently requires a leap of faith and confidence in yourself that no matter what happens, you can handle it, find a solution or get the help that you need.
6.Make the decision! Now that you've completed the previous five steps, you're in a better position to take the risk that's right for you.
Here's the other thing my computer adventure taught me about risk. It becomes exhilarating when you have confidence in yourself and have faith in your actions. I was pretty sure that if I took the right actions, I'd see the right results. I also noticed that facing my fear was a more direct route to my goals than continuing along the circuitous path of avoidance I'd been taking while procrastinating.
By the way, the new computer runs like a champ. It's wicked fast -- as we like to say here in the northeastern part of the US (in New England??). The files transferred beautifully. And, it turns out that, in the end, I knew a thing or two about computers after all.
Tangerine Dream Risky Business
The stereotype that conflict is always detrimental is coming under attack from many researchers. There is a growing school of thought that conflict can stimulate an energetic and dynamic working environment that shakes apathy and compliancy to its core. However, there is an equally vocal group that finds conflict is always dysfunctional and its consequences can far outweigh any potential benefits.
Conflict can effect radical change. In many organizations when radical change is necessary to fight stagnation and apathy, managers deliberately introduce conflict to raise the intensity of a group. New ideas and concepts can come from this intense level of activity. But, arguably, these ideas can just as easily come from cohesive group activity that is orchestrated by responsible managers.
The truth is that radical change can come from a variety of methods, conflict being one of them. But the risks of conflict may make this a risky undertaking.
The consequences of conflict can kill a vital workforce because of the human element that defines a work group. Hurt feelings and anger may sound like petty complaints but as an active element of a work group, they can be fatal. Employee dissatisfaction leads to turnover, reduced productivity, and the potential for violence in the workplace. Given these risks, most managers look for safer ways to stimulate workers.
Conflict can increase group cohesiveness. Work groups respond to outside threats and often bond and pool their resources to ward off threats to their group integrity. Managers can introduce conflict to bring a group together and create an "us or them" mentality. Individuals may feel a sense of connection with their co-workers and increased collaboration can result. The group becomes a single unit whose primary goal is to meet expectations as a way of self-preservation.
But is this a good thing? It is important to remember that this perceived threat is just that, perceived. Once group's goals are met it frequently becomes clear to group members that they have been manipulated and feel used for mercenary reasons. Also, the bonds that are formed are often not dissolved at the end of the mission.
The roots of distrust for management or skepticism in management objectives can sabotage future projects. Team building exercises and an empowering manager can just as effectively nurture group cohesiveness without subterfuge and manipulation. Alliances and bonds can be created through healthy ways that do not pit workers against each other. Research shows that these ties can often promote a high degree of worker satisfaction as personal goals match organizational goals.
Conflict can stimulate a higher degree of innovation. Because of the slightly higher level of tension, employees can work harder to find new and innovation solutions to problems. By virtue of the higher tension levels, group members are more dynamic and motivated to find previously unknown ways of solving problems simply because of the increased level of ideas and sharing that occurs.
Much like a "think tank" operates, members find a new openness to bring ideas and thoughts to the table and answers are the outcome. But is introduced conflict the only way to increase the levels of tension? Indeed, many forms of "brainstorming" come from introducing healthy competition to the group. Competition does not mean conflict.
Contests, humorous team activity, and incentives can increase the level of tension without negative consequences. Employees relate that they feel like they are having fun at work when tension is a positive force. Employees competing to find a better way to resolve a problem when the reward is a relatively minor incentive are not likely to be hostile to the winner. More serious competition with significant rewards can still allow all group members to walk away feeling good as long as their individual contributions are acknowledged and appreciated by managers and members alike.
While there are different schools of though on conflict as a motivator, responsible managers know that conflict may be a risky "means to an end." The potential for employee dissatisfaction and disillusionment can make a quick solution a costly one. Most importantly, mangers need to look at the individuals that make up their workforce as individuals and not just a "cog in the machine." Healthy team building is the key to problem solving,not manipulation and subterfuge.
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