Let us begin with the various channels which you can use to tell a girl that you like her.



First, we have the electronic media. Emails, instant messenger and all similar methods are all terrible for conveying your message. Before you reach for your phone, I got to tell you that the phone is no better either. You might ask what about a snail mail or a note? Forget it! They are all not the best choice either.

It seems that that the only method left is to do it face to face. But that's not what I'm going to talk about. How you tell her, the delivery method you use and the way you express yourself are not really the critical factors.

What is more important is when you are going to tell her. Let us look at it in more details.

For your message to “succeed”, you must know deep inside that she is also attracted to you before you tell her. Telling here anytime earlier than that will most likely spoil your chances with her.

Many men make the mistake of confessing their feelings for a girl who has no feelings for them. Their thinking is this: “I like her so much, so if I tell her about it, she will like me back.”

Attraction does not come by choice! A woman cannot choose whether she wants to like you or not. Either she does or she doesn't.

Think about it. Can you choose whether you like or dislike someone? You can't and neither can she.

What if she is not interested in you? Then you need to create that attraction in her first. This is best done using a variety of flirting, cocky and funny methods.

If you know for sure that a girl is interested in you, then you can move on to the next step, which is what to tell her.

If you are looking for a standard template here that you can use, I'm sorry you won't find one. The good news is that if you have done everything correctly to create that attraction in her, you don't need any words at all.

No words?

There are no words required because the best way for you to tell a girl you like her is to show her. Actions speak louder than words.

That means taking physical things to the next level. The only thing you need to do is to create the romantic conditions necessary for you to do it.

If you have never held her hand before, hold her hand.

If you have held her hand before but never kissed her before, kiss her.

If you have kissed her before but have never got intimate before, get intimate with her.

If she is already attracted to you, everything should go smoothly.