If you are having difficulty finding a relationship it may be that you are not paying enough attention to the yin or the yang (depending on whether you are looking for finding a women or a man) in your home. You can make adjustments to your d'cor to encourage someone to come into and share your life.



If you are looking for a man, you need to make the left (as you are facing the front) or yang side of your home, eye catching. By drawing attention to this dragon side of your house you are giving the subliminal message that you are most attentive to men. There is no need to invest too heavily ? flowers, paintings or anything else bright and cheerful will do. Take care that you do not overdo it though ? you may find that you have more men in your life than you can handle comfortably.

On the other hand, or side so to speak ? if you are looking for a woman you would brighten up the right side.

In the naked city it never hurts to make necessary amends. When you have had as serious argument with your spouse, tie your two wedding rings together with a red ribbon and put them on your bed head for seventy two days. The love qi stored on the rings will heal the hurt each night while you lie in bed. If you are not married or do not have rings, then you can tie two carved wooden turtles (which represent longevity) on the bed head.

Finally in the naked city it is always best to keep peace with your neighbors. Sometimes conflict with neighbors is not a case of who is living there, but because of the physical layout of the home, or even its geography and location ? especially in relation to water ? oceans, coastlines and rivers.

For example, your living area areas which are yang and noisy by nature may well run alongside your neighbor's sleeping areas which are yin and quiet. On the other side of your abode, your bedrooms might be against your neighbor's driveway which is not a recipe for harmony. Rituals can help overcome problems like this.

First try an old fashioned housewarming party and invite your neighbors to show them your friendly intentions. Good old fashioned California hospitality. It is best to make plenty of laughter and noise at your gathering ? after all the neighbors will not complain. After all the whole purpose of this exercise is to drive out the xiaoren (shiaoren) or little people who have been causing you much trouble. Draw these little people on pieces and paper and then throw these papers into the ocean or river water.

Consistency is everything in life, in Feng Shui and in relationships. Hold these rituals at regular and consistent intervals. The Naked City has ten million tales and tens of millions of relationships. Feng Shui.