Initially, how you act, how you sit or stand and how you say things are more important than what you say. Your body language says a lot about you. If you want to attract any woman you fancy, you must pay attention to your body language. To be successful when you are going out on a date you should know some basic guidelines and rules.



The smile. Always keep a sweet smile on your face especially when meeting that woman of your dreams for the first time. Smile can make any woman feel comfortable and at ease. A genuine smile always works and lets everybody feel that you are friendly and harmless. You can never go wrong with a friendly smile.

Always keep eye contact. Do not look or stare at a woman's chest. Most men make that mistake and do not be one of them. Keep eye contact while having a conversation but do not overdo it for it may intimate her. Be natural and just maintain your eye contact for about 70 percent of the occasion to keep her comfortable. Maintaining eye contact may be difficult to do but it should be practiced.

Maintaining an upright posture can give a good impression. Women have a preference of men who have straight and proper postures. All those major film actors have good postures. Having a proper bearing conveys to women that you are healthy, strong and self-confident. It makes you look more attractive. Have a habit of having a proper posture not only to look good but to maintain healthy bones and muscles as well.

Always carry a confident personality. As they say, practice makes perfect. Confidence may not be a God-given gift but you can definitely learn it by practicing. Being confident can get you to places with women as well as with your career.

Light touches are fine during the course of the date. A slight pat on the woman's hand is one way to create an immediate attraction. It can actually break the ice and make a woman feel at ease. The reaction you get may vary from one woman to the other so you should make sure that you aren't being too aggressive. It may be fine for some women, and may be a turn-off to others.

It is very important to pay attention to her. You are on a date with the woman of your dreams so focus your attention on her. Make sure that you are facing her when having a conversation. This is a mistake that many men make. Concentrate on everything she says. It pays to be a good listener. Many men have attention deficit and do not know that listening is one of the most important aspect in any relationship.