The truth, it all depends on your intentions. If you were trying your best to put some sense into someone because he or she is not doing her duty properly, thus your sincere intention here is to bring out the better in that person, it is okay then to be a bit sharp with your words and use anger to drive the point into the person.



This is where the use of "anger" is justified. However, this must only be used after all other efforts have been exhausted, for example, gentle reminders, discussing, firm instructions and so on. As I have always explained, all our emotions have their place and time to be expressed.

Here, anger expressed with good intentions may have a chance to wake the person up. However, the majority of people use anger at the wrong places and at wrong times. For example a husband who gets angry with his moody wife; he goes angry without even taking the effort to find out the cause to her moodiness.

Another example is when a wife throws her anger at her husband whenever he comes home late from work; she blows her top without even taking the effort to find out the reason to his late nights.

There are people who like to throw tantrums just because things don't go their way. They do not realize that they look like idiots when they do that! And there are people who wake up angry in the morning and continue being their angry selves until they go back to bed at night!

Even in their sleep they would be scolding people! It has now become a habit pattern in them!

The worst are those who get angry for no apparent reason other than just to bully another person. Those who use anger the wrong way would eventually have to face the wrath of Law of Energy Returns Back to Source; remember, "What goes around, comes around".

Normally, these people will get hit back through the words and actions of people closest to them. It could be their family members or best friends who would just utter or do something that causes extreme pain and sadness in their hearts.

However, anger is justified when it is used with good intentions; and that also after trying all other methods to handle the situation in hand; but be reminded that Law of Energy Returns Back to Source is still at play.

The time will come when you face similar kind of scenario through those closest to you; in this case, it would be different compared to those who scold and get angry for no reason.

For example, you are about to make a major blunder or just being plain stubborn. Accordingly, the people around you will use anger and utter words or take actions with good intentions.

Please keep in mind that the laws of nature are so precise that nothing escapes these laws!

There is a reason I am talking about this, here. Something similar as above actually happened to me today!

I was not getting enough sleep for a few weeks. On one side, I was writing my blogs and on the other side I was busy creating my own website; in between these I was also occupied with trainings and personal coaching.

Normally, when I do not have enough sleep, I would get headaches that could last for a few hours. Lately, it was getting worse. My wife was advising me to take it easy.

She was gentle when she was reminding me. Yesterday, I was working up to the wee hours of the morning. I took a ten minutes break, and then continued to work on my laptop.

However, this morning around 10.00a.m., while my wife was out, my headache worsened and I was feeling dizzy when I lost balance and fell in the bathroom!

It was a good thing I did not get hurt. Nevertheless, I got an earful from my wife! I mean a real earful!

She told me straight on my face that I was not practicing what I was preaching in this aspect!

She also said that I will be of no use dead to anyone and as such I better start taking care of my health! WOW!

That hit me hard! It was very painful indeed. I was not angry with her, but actually thankful for putting sense into me. I was wondering how could I, a humble student of Nature, I used to say, not aware of what I was doing. I shutdown my notebook immediately and went to bed.

I actually slept the whole day and woke up much more refreshed later in the evening. As you can see, the Law of Energy Returns Back to Source did its work on me.

As I used sharp words to awaken some of my participants of my programs, especially my personal coaching participants, of course with the best of intentions, so did my wife with the best intention that I start taking care of my health.