I'm about to explain to you exactly what does matter when it comes to seducing your date. By following my five point plan, any man, regardless of income or appearance, can dramatically improve his chances of taking that girl to bed.
Step 1. Get her Interested
Whatever your intentions, you're not going to get anywhere with a woman unless you can get her to like you.
There's nothing more attractive to a girl than being found attractive. Make it clear you're into her by being open, attentive and considerate. Hold doors for her, pay the bill, and focus on what she's saying to you.
Keep your conversation light hearted and entertaining, and look for points of common interest. Shared hobbies and similar outlooks make things a whole lot easier, but don't feel you have fake it; if you genuinely don't have anything in common, distract her by asking lots of questions.
Step 2. Get Physical
As the evening progresses, start looking for excuses to touch her. Emphasize a point by brushing your fingers against hers. Empathize with her stories by placing your hand upon her arm. Brush stray hairs from her eyes or rub crumbs from the side of her mouth.
Lean away from her slightly, and watch as she subconsciously leans towards you - you know that she wants to be near you.
Step 3. Go Somewhere Quiet
Wait until the very last moment to suggest you head home together. Perhaps you are having a coffee after the meal, or you've just left the restaurant and are wondering what to do next. Tell her you're having a wonderful time with her and that you don't want the evening to end.
If she doesn't invite you back to her place, don't be discouraged. If she has already shown an interest in your guitar, your indie film collection or your pet iguana, invite her round for a look. Otherwise, ask if she cares to come over for coffee.
Step 4. Start with a Kiss
By this point your date will be tingling with anticipation - and the longer you make her wait for that first kiss, the more excited she'll be.
Build up to the kiss slowly and seductively. Sit yourself next to her with your body turned fully towards her. Lean in slightly and move your gaze from eye to eye and down to her mouth. Really take your time with this.
When neither of you can wait any longer, kiss her. Be gentle, but firm. Tongues should be darting, not smothering. Put your fingers in her hair or your hand on her cheek. Pay attention to her pace and technique and alter yours to match.
Step 5. The Slow Seduction
Girls love to kiss, so take your time. When you are ready to move on, begin stroking her hair or her face. Run your fingers down her arms or along her legs. Put one hand in the small of her back and press her gently towards you.
Begin kissing her face and nibbling her neck. Run your hands up the side of her body and feel her pressing herself closer. Only when you can't bear it any longer, slide your hand up to her chest or slip the tips of your fingers inside her clothes.
The trick to seduction is to always make the woman feel amazing. Treat her well, gaze at her adoringly and you'll both have a night to remember.
The Perfect Female Body
With the rising popularity of female body building, videos that showcase the sport are available in many, many places. Sculpting the perfect female body has become an obsession for many women these days. When you are able to build a great body, what better way to showcase that body than with your very own video?
If you are a female involved heavily in body building, you may want to look into making your own video. Many people these days own their own video cameras. Have a friend tape you posing in different positions and then view the way you look to make sure that you are working all parts of your body to their maximum potential
You may want to look into finding female body building videos so that you have a goal to aspire to. When you are able to view a woman's body that has been worked to near perfection, it can be great motivation to keep on with your workout regimen. Believe it or not, there are many, many places where you can find female body building videos.
Start with amazon.com to find female body building videos. They have over 50 selections that you can choose from that feature women who are posing, in competitions, or performing exercises. You can use these videos as motivation as well as models to strive for in your body building workout.
Check out some of the hardcore body building sites for some great female body building videos. They offer up a variety of videos that can showcase some of the top women in the field of body building. When you buy a video of female body builders, you will learn some of the best ways to work your body naturally.
If you are a member of a local gym, ask them for their advice about what female body building videos would help you the best. They will most likely be able to provide you with at least a few places for you to look. Many gyms also have their own libraries of videos that can help you along the way in your body building goals.
Don't pay too much money for your videos. Do a quick Internet search for female body building videos and see what exactly is out there. You can come across videos that will help you along the road toward your body building goals.
Even though body building has generally been thought of as a man's sport, women are starting to take over. When you find a women's body building video, take notes and emulate what these women are doing to sculpt beautiful bodies. Then you can take their advice and do what they do to make your body look the way you always dreamed it could look.
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