Allow yourself enjoyment, engagement and meaning with the power of positive psychology. Any small business endeavor requires a lot of work, countless hours, lack of sleep, and a myriad of other sacrifices too numerous to name. Yet, because you are dedicated to making sure your business grows and starts to show a profit, you do all with little complaint. However, you have probably been so busy working on your business, you have forgotten to live life to the fullest.
According to Webster's New Millennium Dictionary of English, positive psychology is "the scientific study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive and find happiness". Have you made an effort in the last months, or maybe years, to thrive and find happiness?
Life is much too short. No matter how much you enjoy your business and working toward your professional success, there comes a time where you need to have a life outside of work. Take the time to allow yourself enjoyment, engagement, and meaning.
So, outside of your business, what do you enjoy? Do you like to read good books, go to the movies, play catch in the park, or have a leisurely dinner at a nice restaurant? How long has it been, since you have allowed yourself even the simplest pleasures that have nothing to do with nurturing your business?
If you want to continue onward toward your goal of professional success, you must take time to enjoy life, or you will eventually burn out or suffer health problems. Then, you would be forced to take time off, and that would not be fun at all!
Next, are you engaged with life around you, or does it pass you by? Are you so focused on business, that you have no clue as to what is going on outside the four walls of your office or store? Engagement in life is necessary to remain well-rounded and sane.
You need to participate in community activities. Actually, if you need an excuse, participation is really good for business. Your customers get to see you as a real person, outside of the work atmosphere. Thus, they can identify with you, and be proud that someone they know is willing to give back to the community, that has given so much in return.
Simply put, do not make your business your world. Do not let your work totally identify who you are as an individual. Learn how to stay connected with life.
Finally, every life needs meaning. To be blunt, if you were to die tomorrow, do you want people to remember you as the person who owned a certain business? Would you be satisfied to be eulogized as a hardworking businessperson? Or, would you rather have your life mean more to the people who would be attending the ceremony of your very existence?
Being a successful entrepreneur is a great accomplishment, but you deserve more out of life than constantly working for the next payday. You need to live life, enjoy life, participate in the world around you, and find true meaning for your sojourn on this planet. You will lead a more fulfilling life, be a better business owner, and stay healthier if you will remember to add a little balance and pleasure to your life.
The Power Of The Positive
Why?
As you begin searching for items on eBay you can learn a lot about the sellers. You do not personally know them, but you can see how they handle themselves in the business world so to speak by the way they control their auctions.
Everyone is always selling something, but on an auction site it has never been truer. So what do you have over the next Mom, and why should someone buy your teacup instead of theirs? Well perhaps their teacup is a little older than yours, or a bit fancier, but what if they were very similar?
There are a few things that may draw you to one auction over another, but in this article I only want to mention one, and that is the feedback. What is so important about the feedback? Let me explain.
EBayers care a lot about feedback. They care a whole lot. And perhaps they should. Really, you are buying something from Joe Blow whom you know nothing about. It is all heresay.
There is nothing more exciting then finally seeing the postman at the door with your goodie, you run down to grab your package, you run back up to open it, you call in the children to watch, all thrilled to see how perfect it is and BAM, you look and to your disbelief it is in very bad condition. Your teacup is cracked and looks nothing like it was described.
Your tummy takes a nose dive, your kids look at you like you were a little nuts to be buying that item in the first place, and you just want to scream. Now you feel powerless right? EBay does not have a shopping channel exclusive 30 day money back guarantee, so what next?
Aha, eBay does not leave you helpless though. They allow you to provide feedback on your shopping experience. Well now you have an experience all right. Here is a tool to bring down the vendor, and hard.
Yes, good old feedback. You can say whatever you want, for example, item purchased arrived in terrible condition, looked nothing like it was described, was cracked, or took way too long to receive it, or whatever you want. But the vendor will not get a green plus in the rating column, no he will get a red minus and that just may affect his future sales.
Think about this for a minute. If you could choose between 2 vendors, one has very good feedback, with always positive ratings and the other, well not so good, which would you choose?
I know I would go with the vendor who has the green pluses for sure. At least it gives you some kind of assurity that this person is for real.
People on eBay do not want to be had. They want to buy, yes, but they want the straight up goods on what to expect. There is no pulling the wool over their eyes here, this is not a game you are playing with the kids.
Even if the item being sold is cheap, it still has to be what it is you say it is and in the condition you say it is in, or you become a fake, and soon your sales will drop and your reputation will stink.
And guess what, you won't make any money on eBay. It is this important.
On the other hand, think of how nice it feels when you do something sweet for someone and they tell you how great you are. Well, if you read your customer comments and they are all positive and complimentary that might just give you a little boost, right?
But who really cares about how good you feel, it's about making money right? This is part of the recipe to making money on eBay. Keeping your customers happy is why they will continue to buy from you. It is that simple.
Trust me, your reputation will follow you, make it a good one.
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