These flowers, as in their causes, sleepAsk me no more whither doth stray
The golden atoms of the day;
For in pure love heaven did prepare
Those powders to enrich your hairAsk me no more whither doth haste
The nightingale, when May is past;
For in your sweet, dividing throat
She winters, and keeps warm her noteAsk me no more where those stars light,
That downwards fall in dead of night;
For in your eyes they sit, and there
Fixed become, as in their sphereAsk me no more if east or west
The phoenix builds her spicy nest;
For unto you at last she flies,
And in your fragrant bosom diesSong: Persuasions to Enjoy ~ by Thomas Carew
IF the quick spirits in your eye
Now languish, and anon must die;
If every sweet, and every grace
Must fly from that forsaken face;
Then, Celia, let us reap our joys,
Ere Time such goodly fruit destroysOr if that golden fleece must grow
Forever, free from aged snow;
If those bright suns must know no shade,
Nor your fresh beauties ever fade;
Then fear not, Celia, to bestow
What, still being gathered, still must grow.
Thus, either Time his sickle brings
In vain, or else in vain his wingsA Wedding-Song ~ by John White Chadwick
I SAID: "My heart, now let us sing a song
For a fair lady on her wedding-day;
Some solemn hymn or pretty roundelay,
That shall be with her as she goes along
To meet her joy, and for her happy feet
Shall make a pleasant music, low and sweet."
Then said my heart: "It is right bold of thee
To think that any song that we could sing
Would for this lady be an offering
Meet for such gladness as hers needs must be,
What time she goes to don her bridal ring,
And her own heart makes sweetest caroling."
And so it is that with my lute unstrung,
Lady, I come to greet thy wedding-day;
But once, methinks, I heard a poet say,
The sweetest songs remain for aye unsung.
So mine, unsung, at thy dear feet I lay,
And with a "Peace be with you !" go my way
Lovers and a Reflection ~ by Charles S. Calverley
In moss-prankt dells which the sunbeams flatter
(And heaven it knoweth what that may mean;
Meaning, however, is no great matter)
Where woods are a-tremble with words a-tweenThro' God's own heather we wonned together,
I and my Willie (O love my love):
I need hardly remark it was glorious weather,
And flitter-bats wavered alow, above;
Boats were curtseying, rising, bowing,
(Boats in that climate are so polite,)
And sands were a ribbon of green endowing,
And O the sun-dazzle on bark and bight !
Thro' the rare red heather we danced together
(O love my Willie,) and smelt for flowers:
I must mention again it was glorious weather,
Rhymes are so scarce in this world of ours:
By rises that flushed with their purple favors,
Thro' becks that brattled o'er grasses sheen,
We walked or waded, we two young shavers,
Thanking our stars we were both so greenWe journeyed in parallels, I and Willie,
In fortunate parallels ! Butterflies,
Hid in weltering shadows of daffodilly
Or marjoram, kept making peacock eyes:
Song-birds darted about, some inky
As coal, some snowy (I ween) as curds;
Or rosy as pinks, or as roses pinky--
They reck of no eerie To-come, those birds !
But they skim over bents which the mill-stream washes,
Or hang in the lift 'neath a white cloud's hem;
They need no parasols, no goloshes;
And good Mrs. Trimmer she feedeth themThen we thrid God's cowslips (as erst His heather),
That endowed the wan grass with their golden blooms;
And snapt--(it was perfectly charming weather)--
Our fingers at Fate and her goddess-glooms:
And Willie 'gan sing--(Oh, his notes were fluty;
Wafts fluttered them out to the white-winged sea)--
Something made up of rhymes that have done much duty,
Rhymes (better to put it) of "ancientry":
Bowers of flowers encountered showers
In William's carol--(O love my Willie !)
Then he bade sorrow borrow from blithe tomorrow
I quite forget what--say a daffodillyA nest in a hollow, "with buds to follow,"
I think occurred next in his nimble strain;
And clay that was "kneaden" of course in "Eden"--
A rhyme most novel I do maintain:
Mists, bones, the singer himself, love-stories,
And all least furlable things got "furled";
Not with any design to conceal their glories,
But simply and solely to rhyme with "world."
O if "billows" and "pillows" and "hours" and "flowers,"
And all the brave rhymes of an elder day,
Could be furled together, this genial weather,
And carted or carried on wafts away,
Nor ever again trotted out--ah me !
How much fewer volumes of verse there'd be.
The Valentines Day Song
Those people who are in loving relationships for the most part enjoy Valentines Day and the "season" leading up to it (which now begins directly after Christmas in some retail stores). But many people are in transition, or they haven't yet found the right partner, or they may be in a relationship that doesn't hold any value for them any longer. For these people, Valentine's Day "season" is a real source of emotional pain.
"Many people suffer from much higher levels of stress during the Valentine's season," Frank Lawlis, PhD, co-creator of MindBodySeries.com and Chairman of Dr. Phil's Advisory Board states. "Couple the stress with the depression people feel when they are unhappy in love and reminded daily by the holiday how wonderful it is when you are in love, and you have a recipe for both mental and physical distress."
There are also more incidents of colds and flus caused by the immune system being suppressed by elevated stress levels on the short-term physical side (long term, stress is now linked to some forms of cancer, heart disease and type 2 diabetes). On the mental side, reaction to stress and depression can manifest as symptoms ranging from irritability to suicide and nearly everything in between. People who are stressed can become unpredictable, quick to anger, they may isolate themselves from friends and family, and often, this stress prolonged for a number of days will lead to depression.
"You really can get help for this," Kathleene Derrig-Palumbo, CEO of Online Therapy eClinic, MyTherapyNet.com. "It's the difference between stewing with these feelings for days, weeks, even months or being done with them in a few sessions." She says that Online Therapy is a great option for people who are busy, homebound, live in rural areas, or even ashamed or intimidated to go to therapy in person. Besides that, it's convenient, as clients can meet with a therapist any time of day or night and attend the session from the comfort of their own home or office.
Learning to relax is also very helpful in alleviating and reversing the negativity. This doesn't mean "relax" as in having a glass of Merlot while watching TV. It means clinical relaxation. On a recent episode of the Dr. Phil Show, Lawlis uses his MindBodySeries.com Relaxation Series to help their guests recover from a home invasion.
"Many times, we see that stress is having a significantly negative impact on our guests." Lawlis explains. "By teaching them how to get into a real state of relaxation, they find that many of their issues go from looking larger than life to being manageable." Stress releases hormones into the bloodstream that cause a person's heart to race, blood pressure to rise, and neurological activity to be negatively impacted. The stress response evolved in humans to protect us - if a tiger attacked, the stress response caused us to immediately decide between fight and flight. Stress filters our options down to two. But we live in a much more complex world now, with much more complex stressors - stressors that can be addressed by many tactics - the subtleties of which can have dramatically different long-term effects. These kinds of stressors present us with many options. The only way to be able to even perceive those options is to learn how to clinically relax as quickly as possible when stressed. Once relaxed, the person is able to see the options of the situation. Simply being empowered by having choices can be rewarding in and of itself. Most importantly, the person becomes better situated to making the best possible decision for the situation at hand.
There are also some simple things that you can do to minimize the emotional impact of Valentines Day.
"Get together with other your friends and family", Derrig-Palumbo suggests. But stay away from those that unwittingly (or wittingly) rub your face in their happiness or your dating status. "Surrounding yourself with people you love and who love you will make you feel better". And try to laugh - a lot. Laughter instantly relieves stress and alleviates depression. "Just laugh, even if you don't mean it at first, just the act of laughing will make you feel better".
And above all else - reach out for help as soon as you start to feel stuck. With the ability to use Online Therapy to instantly connect with a licensed therapist, there's no excuse for not getting the help you need.
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