So you want to throw a lingerie party, which have been popular for some time and more and more girls and guys are asking how do we throw a successful lingerie party? The first thing you need to decide is what kind of lingerie party you want to throw.



If the party is for girls only, then you will likely get sexier and more revealing lingerie worn, and likely more of your invited girl guests will actually wear lingerie. So here is where the planning begins as you need to decide if you want to make the wearing of lingerie mandatory. All girl lingerie parties can be fun, and kind of like a sleep over with girls wearing lingerie and the entertainment being tame or torrid. These lingerie parties can have a theme to them, such as a bachelorette lingerie party, and this can be an excuse to buy her sexy lingerie and other fun gifts such as gag gifts, adult toys, massage products, or whatever strikes your fancy. The more tightly you plan the theme, then the clearer the party goers are as to what to wear, bring, and expect.

A great idea is to have a theme to the bachelorette party within it being a lingerie party or a bachelorette party or try a masquerade party, a mardi gras theme, or even a fantasy fest theme. Fantasy Fest is a huge party in Key West every fall where women and sometimes men dress extremely provocatively, nearly nude sometimes, while the city fathers look the other direction. The theme of the party will suggest what kind of decorations to use, what food, drinks, and games you might want to play.

Do not forget that all girl lingerie parties can have a male dancer hired to participate, which can make it more memorable and embarrassing for the bride to be. Keep it a surprise and the anticipation by everyone who is in the know will add to the excitement and be sure to plan ahead and confirm the appointment, make sure directions are given, and let it all hang out. Be sure the idea of a male dancer is not offensive to the bride to be, or other guests, as this can make party uncomfortable for some.

One idea for a lingerie party is get everybody to give the hostess her sizes, and the girls pick a name out of a hat, then the name you get is the person you purchase an article of lingerie to wear. You may want to set limits, or not set limits, depending on the theme, but this can be really fun as it begins when each of the girls opens her gift and has to model the outfit. This can turn into a riot of fun as girls only may allow all the girls to feel comfortable wearing provocative lingerie, but keep in mind that this may make some girls uncomfortable, so plan accordingly.

A variation on the girls only lingerie party is to have it open to couples, which does not mean it turns in an orgy. Guys have to wear lingerie also such as boxers and a hot top, or a unisex robe, or whatever. Again, girls need to have advance warning about this type of party as it may or may not be best to allow men to attend without a girlfriend, or wife. Of course, it is up to you, but the opportunities are intriguing.