So, what should you do when you are approaching a woman? In fact you should not be too nice. Of course this does not mean that you need to be rude. Both extremes will lead you to failure. You should try to be confident and funny when you are approaching her.



You are doing this because you will need to firstly build some relations with her. You need to tell her (from your body languages, of course) that you are not really concerned if she has interest in you or not. You should show her that you are prepared to comment on her. Of course this does not mean that you are going to embarrass her. You need to tell her that you are a funny man. In fact, you need to do all these to attract her. You will certainly fail if you fail to attract her.

For instance, when you approach a lady, you can tell her: Your dress looks very elegant, but it does not go alright with your hair style. You may need to take some time to practice on it.

Now, you may be curious how you can know if she has the interest in you. You have to keep talking to her and try your best to attract her. If you can do this, the relations mentioned above will be developed even if you do not realize that.

Remember, you should not let the atmosphere be boring when you are having conversation with her. You do not need to impress her by talking about things like politics or finances. You should just act as an average guy and discuss with her on issues such as TV shows or pop stars. And one of the most important things you should always bear in mind is that you should never talk about your problems at work when you are dating her.

Besides, if you are a man who is a little biy shy to start conversation with her at the first time you date her, you may consider watching a movie with her. This will certainly help and you will find yourself more successful in approaching women!