Where can you use your picture with women? Obviously on the internet if you're attracting women over the web, but if you're already in a relationship, you want the woman in your life to have one of you, and preferably more. Why? Because everytime she sees it, it reinforces her attraction for you IF you've taken it correctly.



The first thing you need to do when you get your picture taken is to make sure you have a genuine smile on your face. Not a phoney, hokey s—t-eating grin, but an honest to goodness smile, the kind you smile just before you start to laugh.

You want to have a “naughty thought” in your mind, and a mischievous look in your eye, so when she thinks of you, she thinks of your “naughty side.” I have tested picture after picture online, and the one I have posted on my current online profiles far out pulls any of the others. I always get compliments on my “smile and eyes,” and that picture was taken very deliberately.

What other things should be in your picture? Things that make you appear attractive. What should NOT be in your picture? Things that in comparison make you appear unattractive.

Let me give you a few examples. I recently did an online profile critique for a guy who had pictures with him and his friend. He's short and balding; his friend is tall, with a full head of hair and blue eyes. The friend has got to go—in comparison, he looks unattractive.

Now, he did have a picture of him with an attractive woman by his side who was shorter than him, and obviously happy to be there—this should stay, as it makes him more attractive (social proof, as well as her touching him).

He was also losing his hair, and when it comes to hair, you should either have it or not. If you're losing your hair, I'd recommend getting rid of it all and doing the “bald look.” If you have a woman in your life who likes you the way you are, that's OK, but if not, looking like George Kostanza is no help for your love life. Balding makes you look like a wuss, bald makes you tough and edgy.

What else is important? How you're dressed is important—get a woman to dress you before you have your picture taken. Cut your hair (if you have any), get a shave (at least trim a beard or mustache), clip your nails, and look as neat as possible. Women notice details us guys don't, and she'll notice you're neat and well dressed.

Also, if you have a cute puppy or kitten, it doesn't hurt to have a picture taken with them either. If you look through the online personals, you'll be amazed at how many women have posted a picture of their dog or cat.

The end result is this: when she sees your picture she should either be reminded why she's attracted to you, or intrigued enough to discover more about you. Don't neglect the power of pictures… they can be a very important piece of the attraction puzzle.