Remember, you don't have to go out when you can stay home. You can make your date night happen at home just as easily as you can by going out, and it will take the pressure off so you may actually have more fun if you do this every now and again.

There are some great things that you can do at home on date night that will still allow it to feel special. For instance, why not put some candles on the deck, grab your favorite bottle of wine, and just sit and talk under the stars? This can be a great way to renew the relationship and the bonds between the two of you without ever setting foot outside the house.

Another option is to put on your favorite dancing music, pour each of you a drink, and dance the night away in your own living room. When you enjoy being together and you enjoy dancing together you will find that the rest of the world falls away when you dance anyway, so what does it matter that you are in the living room? It doesn't! This can be a great way to spend an evening in.

Has it been a long week and neither of you feels like going out on your typical date night? No big deal, on the way home from work pickup something easy such as pizza, burgers, or something of this nature. When you get home turn the lights down low, lay a blanket out on the floor, light some candles, and just enjoy a fun and relaxing night at home. Your date nights are what you make of them, so make the most of your night without expending too much energy.

Another great thing that you can do in the comfort of your own home is to draw a back or even turn on the hot tub if you have one and throw in a few rose petals, light some candles, get your favorite drink, and both of you slip in. You may find that you actually talk very little if you are tired and trying to relax, or you may actually find that once you open up this relaxation that you have a lot to say to one another. A hot tub can be a great way to get close and relax, again all without leaving home, which is perfect!