Many people think that the first love is most powerful in all life time. All of as have heard the words "you can never forget your first love". Is this true?
I have talked with four women, friends of mine about this subject. All of them are married with a different man than the one they have loved for the first time. I had a great surprise; all of them have told me almost the same things:
First love is mostly passion - second love is much deeper.
When a woman loves for the first time she thinks that that man is the only one on the earth and she has no choice, without him she is lost. When she loves for second time, she knows that there are a lot of other available men but she is CHOOSING to be with the one she loves, because he is the best for her.
First time a woman can love a guy for no reason, just because he was the first no matter how he is treating her. When she loves for the second time she is able to see his qualities and his personality, and love him for who he is.
Second time she loves with all her heart because she knows that he deserves her love. First love can be full of fear and insecurity. Fear can be a fuel for passion but is not a nice filling.
These are good news for guys in your situation, but I didn't answer yet to biggest question: Does she think at him when she is with you in bad?
This answer on this question is the opposite of the one of the next question: "Does she really love you?"
If she loves you she is enjoying every moment that you are together, every touch, every kiss. All that she is thinking is YOU!
It is true, you never forget your first love but over a time it become just like a story of someone else, hided in a corner of your mind.
So if you are the one she has chosen, be THE LOVE OF HER LIFE and forget about her first love. :)
