The New Year is always a good time to make resolutions and to better yourself as a person. Many people decide to lose weight after all that good holiday cooking. Others want to get more organized, finish their education, or be better parents. As a single woman, you might be wishing you could resolve to do something about your love life. Is there really anything you can do to change that?

Of course! Believe it or not, finding your soul mate is not determined by chance, it is mostly up to you. Now granted, you cannot guarantee that your true love will be in your life by Valentines Day, but there are some things you can do to better your chances at finding the love of your life this year. Below are three goals you can make to improve your romantic life this year.

1. Discover the Real You

At the moment, you are single. So many women feel that this is a situation to be avoided. This is the wrong way to look at it. Each of us will be single at some time in life. It is more important that we take advantage of being single instead of seeing it as a curse. Right now, you are the only one who has a say in your life. You can do what you want, go where you want, and become whatever you want. This makes single life the best time to decide what you want out of life and figure out who you want to become. It's an exciting adventure that it best to take while single.

2. Enjoy Becoming your Best Self

After you have decided where you are going and who you want to become, start working towards those dreams! You'll be amazed at the joy that comes from developing yourself. This will also help you decipher what kind of guys will be best for who you really are. No more trying to impress men! By being true to yourself, you will naturally impress the ones who would be most compatible with you.

3. Find and Keep the Guy for You

As you begin chasing your dreams and developing your talents, adding the right guy in the mix will become more clear as well. The characteristics of your soul mate will become more obvious as you understand yourself more, and you'll even know more about where to find him. Also, you will be more equipped with the skills to know if guys are your potential soul mate, or just another road to heartache.

Is it possible to set goals about your love life? Absolutely! It is your choice whether or not your love life improves. Decide today to make this year better than ever!