How can I get my ex girlfriend back without spoiling my chances? If you have just broken up, the number one thing that you should do now is to take full control of your emotion. It is understandable that you will feel heart broken after a break up, just like everyone else. However, this emotional state is what caused people to do the things that they should not be doing in the first place.

By gaining control of your emotion, you will have a clearer mind. You will then be able to plan your next move and thus increase your chances of reconciliation.

In this article, we will focus on some of the things that you must never do.

Below is a list of things that you must avoid doing at all cost. Doing so will drastically reduce your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back. If you have already done that, stop immediately.

1) Don't call her several times per day

Sometimes, the more we want certain things, the more those things elude us. This is true in many examples be it a job, money and even a relationship. If you are trying to call her several times per day even though she didn't answer your call, it will show that you are a needy guy or even "desperate". This is definitely not a very desirable attribute in a girl's eye. Furthermore, you are actually giving away control. This will put you in a disadvantage immediately.

2) Don't say certain words

Don't say things like "Please come back", "I really can't live without you" or other similar phrases. Try to put yourself in her shoes. If you are a girl and a guy says these to you, how would you feel? And what happens if a girl says these to you. I believe you will be driven away by her. And just like point 1 above, you don't want to show that you are needy.

3) Forget about coincidence

There are some guys who will plan to meet their ex girlfriend coincidentally. Perhaps you know she will appear at XYZ building today, you purposely wait for her there. Don't ever try these tricks. Most of the time, it doesn't work. She will be able to spot it immediately. It will make you appear like a stalker. No one likes to be stalked.

By avoiding these 3 mistakes, you will increase your chances of getting you ex girlfriend back.