Have you ever thought about ways of getting your ex back? Maybe you thought the grass was greener on the other side and come to find out that you could have stayed with the one you really love and the one person who really makes you happy? The late great singer Luther Vandrous has a song that may relate to you "'I'd rather have bad times with you; than happy times with someone else."

Every relationship have issues. Are you willing to work at them to get your ex back?

You say yes to you and your ex getting back together; apply these 2 strategies and you and your ex may be in each other's arms again as soon as tomorrow evening.

1. Use your words wisely. Just words; you say. Do not underestimate the power of words. The not so good words separated you from your ex and they can put you back together again. Knowing how to use them is key.

Begging and pleading forgiveness is not what you want to do. Not only does it make you look foolish, it also requires a lot of energy. Save that energy for using effective techniques that we will talk about.

You must use curiosity and interest to get your ex's attention. Curiosity and Interest are the 2 most powerful of the human mind; combine them together and you have a mind power ball. 9 times out of 10 when using these two together you will get a positive response from your ex.

For example; you call your ex up in a friendly voice and leave him/her a voice mail message saying; "Karen, hi it's John. I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciated what you did for me. Give me a call back so that I can thank you in person". Who can resist that?

After you have gotten your ex to call you back you have to go into the next strategy.

2. The Set Up - Figure out what your ex did to deserve the thank you. This is an important step. The set up can be tricky and you must know exactly how to use this technique.

A word of caution when using these two powerful strategies. If you apply them without knowing how to use them correctly; then you can do more harm than good in getting your ex back. What you do before, during and after you perform these techniques are more important than getting your ex to respond. So make sure you use them correctly in order to get the results you want.

You have just been given 2 powerful methods to get your ex back. Now get to work before someone else does.