"Oh I don't know, you choose," You say, thinking that it would be 'safer' to have her choose something that SHE would like instead of making a decision that she wouldn't like.

"I don't know either..."

It is a problem that we face every day. Making decisions. We need to make choices every day, but everyone is too afraid to step out and choose, scared that they would make the 'wrong' choice. Why making choices is so important and what can you do to start becoming a man of choice will be discussed.

Why is making choices so important? Well the answer is pretty simple. It is your RESPONSIBILITY as a MAN to step up and make these choices. Women want men to make the decisions. Lets look at male-female polarity.

The concept of male-female polarity is fairly simple. In general, men would reach their full potential and would be more satisfied with life when they bathe fully in their masculine polarity and vice versa for women. So to reach your full potential as a man, you need to fully immerse yourself into your masculine traits (which I won't list here, you will be able to find them in other LetsInspire articles) and by doing this, you will help your woman rest easily into her feminine traits.

So how do we become decisive?

As with most things, the first step is to practice. When this issue came up in my life (I suddenly realised that I was indecisive and I needed to do something about it), I made a commitment to force myself to choose -fast- whenever I needed to make a decision. I would not pussy around and think about whether I should do something or not or whether which choice was better. The aim was to follow my gut instinct and make a choice based on that. Now obviously I wasn't making huge business or financial decisions and this process was used for all the minor things in life, so I can't vouch for whether this process would work in those areas. But the point remains that I had to make a choice and commit to it - fast.

After I dedicated myself to this, I found it easier and easier to make choices. I wasted less time procrastinating and started to really step up in this area in my life.

One of the problems that I had, before I started being decisive, was that I was afraid that other people would not like the choices I made. This was fairly easy to resolve in my mind: unless they're making decisions themselves, they usually DO NOT CARE either way. Unless your girl is completely vegetarian, she would not complain about a steak and unless your friends are really, truly boring, they won't complain about the venue that you chose.

Keep these thoughts in mind, and choose to grow. People need a leader, an alpha male to follow. Be that man.