Finding a girlfriend is not as difficult as you might think. There are thousands of women out there! Hundreds who are single! And one that will be the end game when finding a girlfriend.

But how do you get there? What should you do to narrow the field? Are there any signs that you are missing that will point you in the direction of this mystery lady? "Finding a girlfriend" is all about assessing what you currently have, and seeing if there are any improvements that can be made.

These improvements can be with your physical or emotional self. They can be with the company you keep or the places you visit. It can also include the way you see others.

Have you ever considered that finding a girlfriend could involve looking really close to home? Do you meet female friends and see them as a bit more than "friends", but discard those thoughts as rubbish or nonsense?

Have you ever thought about it the opposite way? Maybe those feelings are there for a good reason! Maybe instead of brushing them to the side, you should take them more seriously - embrace them even!

Finding a girlfriend could be as simple as looking at the people you know. Maybe it's the girl in the gym you share a coffee with once a week. Perhaps it's the girl in the local bar. It could even be the single mom you wait with at the school gates at home time for your kids.

Whoever it is, think long and hard about whether she is just a friend, or if she is a friend! This could be the one woman out of all of those others that you have not really taken seriously when trying to find a girlfriend so why not start considering that now?