Your job is to figure out what went wrong and change it. If she was bored, spice things up. If she was looking for more flash, a makeover might be in order. If you were too needy, back off and be a man!

Right now, if you want her back, you need to show her that you are exactly the guy she wants to date.

One way to get your girlfriend back is to show her that you are in demand.

To become the in-demand guy, date in-demand girls. Dating her close friends will make her want to get back together.

If you're not comfortable dating people who might continue to be in your life after you get her back, you can just flirt with them. If your ex is with a bunch of friends, don't pay much attention to her. Pay attention to her friends. If there is a plain one, spend the most time with her. That's one way to "Get My Girlfriend Back."

How does she reacts to you when other guys are around? If someone puts you down, does she stand up for you? That is a good sign that she is still into you and will welcome you back into her life.

When you want your girlfriend back, realize that there is a

new power relationship at play. You are no longer exclusive.

You may not realize that this power shift has occurred. hile you are down in the dumps about the break up, you may not change your behavior - big mistake.

Take advantage of the shift in power. Woo her by changing what she doesn't like about you or the relationship, become the in-demand guy, and be a little unavailable to her.

If this doesn't work, she's probably moved on and you won't have much hope of "Getting My Girlfriend Back."

In almost all cases, if you work hard, you can get your girlfriend back.