“I think my husband is seeing another woman. After claiming to work overtime every Thursday night for a month, I noticed his paycheck wasn’t any bigger. He has also been less intimate in the last two months. There were several text messages from a girl named Liz, and allot of long calls to a phone number I don’t recognize. I can’t afford to hire a private investigator to follow him around. What can I do?" -

Susan M. Fargo, ND

Well Susan, I am hoping for the best, but for your

own peace of mind you can certainly find out who has been calling him.

Try reverse phone lookup at

“This will probably seem strange but I got a phone call the other day from my husband’s ex-wife.

She claims that my husband and her are still legally married.I know him too well, and he will get defensive whether it’s true or not. Any suggestions? – Karen H. Albuquerque, NM

Karen, your husband needs some communication therapy! OK but in the meantime you can certainly do a background check and search marital