One of the first things that you think of is the Why-me syndrome. This is quite normal especially if you were an able person and a quirk of fate left you disabled in a wheelchair. Life dealt you tough challenges and you wonder if things will ever be normal as you knew it to be.

Let us start by thinking about the positives. In fact, you should only think of the positives and send the negatives aspects of your situation to the freezer where it will stay. You are mobile in your wheelchair. You can go to most places as these days there are wheelchair compatible malls, theaters etc.

But you need a friend to go with you. So put in some personal ads where they will be seen by the right type of people and you will get results before your week is out. Yes, it does work that fast! Your personal can be put in print media as well as the internet. Word your ad carefully so that the reader understands what you are trying to say and chances of misunderstandings are slim.

Once you have the written matter in place, think about where you want the ad for personals to be seen. If it is the print media then a few phone calls ought to do the job for you since personals are generally free. If it is the internet then you need to do some research and see which site is best suits your requirements.

There are loads of sites for dating for the disabled on the internet. Since you are also looking for the same this is where you should look first. Select a site where you feel there are the maximum people who you can relate to. They have similar hobbies and ideas. If you are unsure then ask among your friends who have joined sites for wheelchair dating and put in personals.

Register with the site and pout in your personal ad. Then sit back and watch the ad do its job. If you are uncomfortable with giving your name and personal information then get a new email id which you can keep for all the responses you get to your personal ad. This way you maintain your anonymity till you are sure about the person or people you are talking to.

If you are thinking of personals in the print media then generally you can put in a post box number where all your mail comes in. Arrange to have it picked up every two days and you can enjoy reading what all those people have to say about themselves.

Whichever is your avenue, you will get results for your personals and you can easily find friends. Wheelchair personals are effective and easy to use. Go ahead and put in your personal ad today!