Wherever I went, people didn't notice me. The salesgirl failed to serve me. The waiter failed to pass the

menu. And a dog nearly ran me over. I might as well have been dead!

It felt oddd. That was the first time I ever felt like a none-entity.

Around lunch time I entered Starbucks and got me a shot of mochha frap. Zap! Almnost instantly, the caffein lifted my mood... and with it, my vital energy came flooding back. I automatically reared higher. My gait widened. I made eye contact. And best of all, I began smiling.

The magic didn't stop there. With my personal energy flooding out my pores, I noticed an instant effect on those around me. Strangers greeted me with grins. A police offer waved. And a dog came to be petted. What a difference one's mood does to those around us!

Here are some techniques to be noticed:

* Maintain high energy levels. Avoid heavy meats and starchy foods which kill metabolism. Go for organic veggies and fish.

* Walk with purpose. Keep your spine straight and take measured steps.

* Gesture with command. Occupy as much space as you can. Model after Pierce Brosnan

* Maintain constant eye contact. The eyes can magnetize even the most frigid.

* Vary the tone of your voice. Monotony kills.

* Greet everyone you see. The clerk. The officer. The vendor. Even the dog.

* Smile smile smile smile!

* Be distinct. Wear something decent and unique that no one else has.

* Have an active lifetsyle. Go to the gym. Play ball. Athletes are attractive because their personal energy is boundless.

* Mingle at gatherings instead of sitting at a corner.

Want to be the life of the party? Keep your mood up. Straighten up, smile and walk with confidence. And don't forget the coffee.