I never thought I would find the love of my life through a free onlinedating service. I have been an active member in this free online datingcommunity for quite some time and even dated a few gorgeous girls, but theywere all causal flings. Maybe I wasn't looking to be in a serious relationship.My last experience was a bit too much for me to handle. I was in a relationshipfor 3 years and life was proceeding smoothly. I even denied a very lucrativejob offer in another city so I could be with her. She was a part-time model andwanted to make it big in the fashion arena. I used to finance her portfolioshoots and even accompanied her many times to her shoots. I felt a bit out ofplace in there but I wanted her to be happy and that's why would support herevery decision. I look back now and laugh at it all, what I saw as love, shesaw as an opportunity to take advantage of.
Gradually she would accept longer and further away shoots, financed byme, and would be absent for days without telling me a thing. Still I tried tomake it work for both of our sakes, but one day I learned she had been seeinganother man on the side. A million thoughts raced through my mind about what todo. I had been experiencing a great deal of pain at this time, and decided tovoid all cheques she had written to hers and other agencies, I threw her out ofmy home and sold the car I had bought for her.
Since that week, I've learned to not put so much trust in women; Irefrain from emotional attachment now. Casual flings and physical intimacy forsome time is ok, but nothing more than that. Then I met Julia through a freeonline dating service. Before we met physically, I chatted a couple of timeswith her on the free online dating service chat room. I must say I wasattracted by her intellect even from the first time we met on free onlinedating service chat. She was a dietician, part time writer, and painter. Shealso did a lot of charity work and was a very serious human rights activist.There was a special charm even in our common conversation.
Before we decided to meet over dinner I had already made up my mind notto be romantically involved with her. But by the time we had met, I found myselfalready growing fond of her, her intelligence and personality was simplyamazing. She was gorgeous no doubt, but more than that she was a lovely humanbeing and her honesty and straightforwardness was something to admire.
It's been threemonths since we first met on the free online dating service and we are stillgoing strong. I'm not sure what lies ahead for us, but as of now we are happyand its all thanks to the free online dating service.
