Always remember to keep the conversation lighthearted and fun. Stay away from serious conversations or anything too personal.
A Few Conversation Dos
• Do be sincere. If her smile lights up the room, then tell her, but don't say something just for the sake of it. Insincere compliments are transparent.
• Do be yourself. Whatever's on your mind and in your heart will be the most natural thing you can
talk about. Remember, they'll either like you or not. If they like you, great, if not… next! Why waste time trying to get someone's approval?
• Do be funny. Being light with a sense of humor helps people let their guard down, which could
allow you more room to move in!
• Do say his or her name a few times; it'll make them feel special. But don't say it too much, or you'll sound like you just attended a cheesy sales seminar.
• Do keep it positive. Stick to your best attributes and the things you are most positive about. People become sexier as they talk excitedly and passionately about things that interest them.
• Do have fun with it. It's all about play!
A Few Conversation Don'ts
• Don't criticize personal choices, like wearing fur or who they voted for in the last election.
• Don't hog the conversation. It should flow back and forth like a tennis volley — you hit, he or she
returns.
• Don't start talking about marriage or commitment on the first three dates.
• Don't use cheesy opening lines like, “Are you an Aquarius?”
A Few Conversation Don'ts for Men
Avoid these danger zones!
• Don't corner her into revealing her age — it's never welcome.
• Don't use an authoritative or formal tone —save it for the office.
• Don't ask if she has kids right away. Single moms are sensitive about this and fear that
you might have your “avoid the instant family” radar turned on.
• Don't compliment below the neck. No woman wants to know how you've checked out her nether regions.
• Don't go overboard with the bravado. Bragging about past conquests, thinking you know
more about her anatomy/job/family than she does, or trying to impress her with your
salary and net worth will leave you solo. Confidence is alluring — cockiness is not.
• Don't “over-friend.” This means you're acting like all you want is to chat, because that's exactly what you'll end up with. Inject a little flirty banter into the conversation and don't hide your intentions.
• Don't “self reject.” Deciding that someone is out of your league and failing to make a move
will ensure you never get rejected or accepted. Why? Because you rejected yourself first!
A Few Great Questions to get the Conversation Started on a First Date:
Where did you grow up? What was it like there?
What is the last book you read?
What is your favorite childhood memory?
If you could met anyone famous, who would it be and why?
If you weren't in your current profession, what would you do and why?
If you could rewind to any point in your life, what would you want to relive?
Are you are morning, afternoon or evening person?
If your life had a theme song, what would it be?
If you won the lottery, how would you spend the money?
