We all like to think of ourselves as carefree men who would rather spend time in front of a huge 45-inch HDTV screen watching the Super Bowl instead of being huddled together with a woman you have deep feelings for.

But most of time, if you do care for a girl you were just interested in for sex at one point, you tend to miss the girl when she is not around and you start to get that "puppy dog" look in your eye when you are around her.

This is not a good emotion for a master seducer to have going on in his head at any time, no matter how long you've known this certain girl. The reason that this is a negative emotion for you is because you are letting her presence validate the reason for you being alive, definitely NOT a good thought to bring into your life.

If you feel that every woman you've ever had sex with should be around you at all times and should never even talk to another guy, much less have sex with other men, then you have a serious "neediness" problem.

The neediness issue is always the #1 concern when any newbie enters this world of seduction because to do something that is this time consuming and challenging psychologically means you definitely do NEED to get something out of all of your hard work and effort.

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But this need or desire is entirely different than the earlier example of neediness when you find a woman who will have sex with you but in the process of having great sex with her, you still have a huge need to be around her 24 hours a day.

The best way to eradicate this "needy" behavior is by concentrating on other activities of your life, such as your golf game, taking up tennis or softball, or you can start going to the gym and work out a lot harder than you ever did before.

These types of activities tend to take your mind off of just one girl because you are expending mental and physical energy on something other than just dealing with your need to be around one girl all the damn time.

You also must start interacting and approaching women on a more frequent basis, even though your neediness to be around these women as well is eating at you. The only way to alleviate bad behavior is by taking it on fully by accepting the behavior as part of who you are, but also knowing you have to take drastic steps right now to eradicate that behavior through any means necessary.

So the next time you are with a girl and you feel that wussy-man inside you start screaming "I need to be with you a lot more than I already am! Please be with me all the time!", just try to ignore that voice and immediately find another hobby as soon as the woman leaves.

I don't care what the hobby is. It could be DVD-collecting, taking up painting, taking up writing a book or starting a new website.

Whatever you pick, make sure it is something that you care passionately about because you need to discard that neediness you have for women and replace it with something that will make you leave that needy behavior behind for good.