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Here I was with tears in my. No matter how hard I tried to keep the tears back, the tears kept coming. They say a man is not supposed to cry, but I just couldn't help it.
It all happened on a beautiful tuesday morning, August 1st 2006. I was standing by my breakfast table reading a letter I just received from my cousin, Sandra. Her
Letter brought the tears to my eyes. I will share with you a bit of the letter which really touched my heart.
As a writer and researcher, I am used to receiving touching mails from people about how my writings has helped improve their lives, but this letter I just received from
my cousin really hit home and got me all emotional. It brought out my tears because my cousin Sandra is very close to me but she is not the kind of person one
would expect to write such a personal and revealing letter to me.
With her permission I will reveal to you some of the letter's content written in her own words:
"Tony (her husband) surprised me after dinner with a beautiful gift of Jewelry. He looked so sweet when he told me that I had unknowingly saved him from making a
major mistake which could have ruined our marriage. His words shocked me! Immediately several questions started going through my mind. What did I do? What did
I prevent? How did I prevent it? I listened carefully while he continued talking".
"Honey, I noticed that for sometime now, you've sending me text messages from time to time, telling me about how much you love and admire me as a hardworking
and caring husband and father to our kids. You also asked me a short while back, if there was anything you do that makes me extra happy. I told you some things
and I immediately noticed that you start doing more of such things. You also got me some surprise gifts that has greatly enhanced my work.
What you never knew was that despite our happy marriage, I almost made a serious mistake some time back. I met this lady at work several weeks back who has
been a major conversational partner with me for sometime now. Innocently and unintentionally, we have been getting very close and I suddenly started looking for
faults in our relationship and family life. But, suddenly you started doing all these things I mentioned earlier and then it suddenly hit me that its you I truly still loved
and cherished, not the new woman.
I quickly told her off and kept away from her. My continuously relating with her would have eventually lead to me cheating on you, but the things you started doing
made me retrace my steps and helped me realize that my relationship with this "other woman" wasn't healthy."
These were the things my Tony told me. Thanks for showing me how to "keep other women away from my man" through your writings. You saved my family a lot of
pain and heartbreak. Guess you didn't know I read your ebook. Stay in touch. You are welcome to visit us soon. We all miss you. Sincerely, your cousin, Sandra."
I hope you now understand why I was so emotional about my cousin's letter. If my writing is changing and improving lives this way, then its all been worth it. The
point I also want to make here is that there are lots of things you can do to keep you man away from other women and to keep other women away from your man. In
my cousin's letter to me above, she mentioned some things she did to unknowingly save her relationship from potential danger.
Once again the following are some of the things she did:
* She sent him emotional text messages expressing her love and praising him for his faithfulness and caring for his family.
* She sent him unplanned gifts that were useful to his work.
* She asked him to tell her about the things he loves her doing. And then she did more of it.
These are just a few of the things you can do to help bulletproof your relationship against infidelity. I felt I should write this article to help show you how some simple
but effective tips can help keep the other woman away from your man. You deserve a good and secure marriage free from the fear of infidelity.
To my cousin Sandra, I would just like to say; "Am glad I was able to prevent infidelity in your marriage through my writings. Wishing you and your family happiness
as you continue following the rest of my advice. Miss you guys too. I look forward to seeing you soon"
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