Love is the most precious feeling and also a bittersweet one at that. Once you find it, you will have to hold on to it as if it will end your life if you lose it. As women of modern times, we kind of fall in love with head over heels over one guy at some point in time. The biggest problem that we must face however is if they do not feel the same way towards us or they can't reciprocate the love we give no matter how great it is. But here are few things you can do to get a guy fall in love with you and stay that way.

Build up your self-confidence. Love yourself more because this is what most guy find attractive. Your self-confidence will radiate to anyone looking and will become evident on how you treat yourself and how you carry yourself when confronted by many situations. If you tell your man that you will change yourself for him, chances are you will lose his affection rather quickly because most men find this not flattering at all. They would not want to love someone who has not tried to love herself first. If you love yourself more, he will realize that you are a contented woman and will stick by you no matter what happens.

Learn how to be independent. This is also one thing that men find attractive in women. It does not mean that you should be someone who has the authority and power running your own company or have a job enough to feed a whole family. Instead this independence simply means that you can take care of yourself and not fussy about things involving the gender issue. If you do not depend on others for care, affection or even money then you are a self-sufficient woman worthy of a guy's attention.

All of us women have past relationship as well as all men do. But bringing past relationship failed issues into the new one is surely the quickest way to lose your guy. Men considers the past as past and leaves them there, so they more appreciate you if you leave the past behind and begin a new chapter with them. While it is true that you must have been cheated in the past, men do not like to be stereotyped so they do not want you to accuse them of being the same as the guy before them. Also do not complain about your last guy more than allowed because your guy might think that you also talk about them to someone else.

You reap what you sow and this pretty much is true in every relationships. If you sow love, you will reap love in return no matter how little or how big it may be. Do not get overwhelmed by the fact that some guys can sometimes be blind that their treasured other halves is already in front of them. This simply is because not all can have the same appreciative eyes and heart as you are. Just be true.