How do you transform the way you come off? Self-awareness is one of the critical factors that is a game changer. The behavior you demonstrate and the effect you have on others need monitoring. No matter how good your behavior effects others, one false move can undo 99 good moves. Learn to keep an eye on open for pace and subtle clues for feedback.

With your mind's eye on elements of your character that can cause attraction as well as cut off attraction, you need control. Any negative attitudes, projections, or physical traits need to be stopped and eliminated from a persona. Self-awareness is the deciding factor for this culling out process.

As you probably know, you do not want to make women feel uncomfortable or put them on edge. It does take time to become totally congruent with creating attraction on the fly but teasing, a little cockiness and playing hard to get are sexual tension triggers.

No matter how smooth things are going, one negative can cause the budding relationship to crash and burn. For instance, if you get "romantic" too soon you'll cut your personal authority and end in the scrap heap. If you give the woman the lead and you follow along like a dog on a leash, you'll crash and burn.

Whiners, revealing the soft side or looking for her approval every step of the way are attraction killers. Women are looking for someone who is living a c and interesting life and loving it. They are looking for strong behavior and strength in personal authority.

Women are attracted to guys that they feel a distinctive attraction for. It's a matter of self-protection for her to keep her options open. If you're not making the right moves to gain her trust and affection, she'll see it as a shortcoming.

After the chase and catch is over and you become an "item," if you let down and make her feel like she has to do all the work, she'll start withdrawing. When a woman feels like she has completely dominated you and has you wrapped around her fingers to the point that the challenge ends, she'll be looking to leave.

Women want a self-assured Alpha male presence in their life. They need that challenge and enigma for a relationship to succeed and flourish.