Most of the time, it is common for them to do the wrong things, which not only do not help the situation, but can in fact make it worse.

There are certain things that should not be done at all cost. If you have already done them, then it is advised that you stop doing them immediately. Here is a list of things that you will not want to do, especially just after a break out.

1)Contacting your boyfriend again and again even if he does not answer

If you have been contacting your boyfriend very frequently but you are not able to get his reply, then it is obvious that he is trying to avoid you. It is very likely that he knows you are contacting him but he just want to ignore you. So the more you persist, the more he will want to run away from you.

Instead, start leaving him alone for a period of time. Who knows he may start to miss you again.

2)Don't question his reason for a break up

The reason that he gives you for break up may be unacceptable to you. However, do not question it. This will only stir up more argument. Probably, there are other reasons but the reason is not that important at the moment. It is more important for you to take charge of your emotional state before you decide what you are going to do next.

3)Do not question his friends or family members

Sometimes, it is hard for women to stomach the fact that their boyfriend has initiated a break up. There will want to use every mean possible to find out the real reason. Is it because there is a third party?

Try not to do that. Put yourself in his shoes. If you are the one who initiated the break up and he is now pestering your friends, how would you feel? Would you still want to reconcile with him?

It is important that you are aware of what are the things that you should not be doing. This is because doing these things can spoil your chances of reconciliation. No matter how tempted you are, never do the three things mentioned above.