I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I see on this relationships Websites seeking for answers.
People just like you are trying to put their relationship back together, and make it work in a right way.
So, Im going to answer this... How di I get my Ex return my phone call, text message or IM? But Be Very Careful.... In the Magic of Making Up, I recommend a complete strategy....
If you use this technique alone,without a Good plan or strategy, You may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. What NOT to say!!! Dont, Dont!!!
Before I get into the actual deal go over what message almost Never, Never works, and Worse. Put my friend in a BadBad position. These usually falls into 2 categories.
1. The dog on Pleadere the message sounds like this: Pete, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called you. I really have to talk to you, please
2. The Fake Emergency situattion like this: Cindy, this is an Emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this message I dont know which one is more petty.
Anyway, now I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I wont go on and on for an hour here...
Now my friend, How to use Curiosity and Self Interest to your advantage and make it work? Yes,you like that! Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest!!
And yes you are right, here is the Huge Big Secret..
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work like Magic. So.. Lets look at what you can say that works nearly Every time, YES it does!
Ok, in a friendly tone: Hi Pete Its Cindy. I wanted to let youknow I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person
Ahhh!!! Do you see how that uses both Curiosity and Self Interest? Pete will not be able to resist! He will be thinking, What did I do? What does she appreciate? he will be thinking. And now he feels good because it is a Positive message.
Now... Before you call You need to do the Set Up Plan which is figuring out whathe or she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing.... but needs to be plausible. And more importantly...
Be careful again!!!! Plase have an underlying strategy like I learn in the Magic Of Making Up System before you call. Because you can really mess up big!!!
If you apply this techniques with no underlying plan or strategy and they call back you can do more Damage than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay???
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is More, More important than gettinh them to return your call. Does it make sense?
I recommend to have a Plan, and Im talking about this because I went through this also, and I learn a lot of this Making Up System, so I hope you do too!!!
