Here are some of the questions I got this week:

1. My husband has Alzheimer's. I am running out of money. When will it end?

2. When is he going to ask me to marry him?

3. When is he going to stop cheating on me?

4. When should we have a baby?

5. When are we going to get the funding for this private venture?

6. When is the best time to take the cruise?

7. When is the divorce going to be final?

8. He's got a tumor. When is it going to go away?

It depends on the cards and their charts, and sometimes it just is not clear. Other times, it is simply not supposed to be known. Spirit moves in ways we do not always understand.

Another reason why timing is hard to 'get' is because there is always free will. There is also Spirit, and Time is a different dimension. Sometimes what the person has asked me about has already occurred, they just don't know it. I have had that happen. I can't figure out what they're asking, because I see it as already having happened.

Think of it like this, if you've been pregnant or your wife has. You keep asking the doctor (or yourself) when is this baby coming? Well, there's a general timeframe, but. But.

Many a time someone has been given a death sentence by a physician, yet other forces intervene including their own healing actions. I have coaches several people who were given "one year to live" who are still walking on this plane after many years.

It's important to remember about the free will. There is karma, but part of getting a reading is to be able to exercise your free will. Nothing ?in the future? will necessarily ?come true? because of human free will -- yours, theirs, his and hers. When a person is not mindful, things they have actually caused can see like ?fate.?

Look at the story of ?Othello,? by Shakespeare. If you haven't read the play, the story is not complicated, but it is tragic. Iago set out to kill Othello, and at the end of the play Othello kills his wife and then kills himself, having already destroyed his own life, piece by piece. Was that fate? No. It is the most tragic sort of lack of mindfulness. Othello could have stopped this scenario at any time. Instead, he was a puppet in the hands of the master puppeteer ? Iago.

Please don't get yourself in this position!

These are called ?tragedies? in Shakespearean terms because the ?hero? is done in by himself, by what used to be called a ?character flaw.? In other words, it is something within the person he's not aware of and therefore can't control, not an external event, like a train wreck or a bullet.

In this case, Othello was so unaware of his emotions, his temper, and his jealousy, and he was so insecure, he walked right into Iago's drama. Was this fated to happen? Well, Othello would die some time, we all cross over. In this way? There is nothing ?fated? about it. Othello could have used his free will at any point and the outcome would have been different. He never even asked his wife what was going on.

Now consider that someone had been reading for Othello. By building a relationship, having numerous and fairly frequent readings, the questions might have been asked. At some point Othello might ask ? did Desdemona cheat on me? That's a question I get asked a lot, and THAT is something you can ?see? in the cards.

At some point he might also have asked about Iago's intentions and motivations. Should I trust this man Iago when he says these things? Maybe the devil card would come up and Spirit would reveal in that manner: this man is not to be trusted. When we readers hear more, and hear more often, it guides each reading, and each one builds on the last one. Accuracy increases with knowledge.

We can provide ideas on how to circumvent things, how to stop the train even if it's already on the track. One of the things I always look at is what an be done in order to prevent somedthing, or make it more likely to happen.

Take for instance the marriage thing. If I have done the guy's chart, I'll have a good idea what's likely to turn him off, or put him off. A Scorpio for instance, nagging will get you nowhere. They are more tempted to do the opposite to what a woman tells them to do. If you're an Aries or Leo woman, there are certain things these signs tend to do that can be off-putting in such a situation. I've read for a lot of people and analyzed a lot of charts. If the guy's chart has a lot of Taurus, Venus and Libra, he's likely to be softer and more pliable. Lets say more amenable to conversation. An Aries sun sign with Mars in Gemini and Uranus in Aries? Do ANYTHING but demand something.

To get the best out of your reading, try phrasing your ?when? questions differently. Get more readings about the topic of your concern, so that you supply your reader with more information to work with. Charts help tremendously by the way.

Let's rephrase the questions above:

1. My husband has Alzheimer's. I am running out of money. What can I do?

2. What can I do to get him to ask me to marry him? What do the cards (charts) say I should NOT do?

3. Is he cheating on me?

4. We're thinking about having a baby? Can you tell from the cards when would be a good time to try?

5. Is this particular venture capitalist the one? He's a Pisces. What should my approach be? What's he worrying about?

6. Does it look September is a good time for me to go on a cruise?

7. What is hanging up this divorce? Why all the hearings? What can I do to get it moving?

8. He's got a tumor. The doctor says ? and we are doing that. What else can I, or he, do to keep him in the Light?

Frequent readings with your astrologer and psychic will result in better questions, and good answers come from good questions.