I know how hard it can be to forget especially when you have laid all you had into the relationship and all of a sudden, you guy decides to call it quits. It can really be depressing but it does not mean that you have to stop living.

I'll let you in on "the" secret to the fastest way to get over a broken relationship. The secret is to give up all hope that you'll ever get back together. That is it. No potions and no spells. Just give up any lingering hope that your love will find their way back to you.

This is by far the best and proven to be successful trick to getting over the person you love. You have to accept and understand that losing them made your life sad. The loss made you feel miserable for days or weeks. It is over. It is time to move on.

I know it easier said than done especially if it is a fresh break-up. But there is nothing much you can do about it. Face the reality of the heartbreak and ride it out. It is painful no matter what technique you do.

You could try to lessen the pain you're experiencing by removing anything that will remind you of your relationship and of the person. Like photographs of your ex put them aside for a while. And more importantly avoid the places you used to go before for your own sake.

If you're experiencing difficulty in living your life alone after a really bad break up, you may want to seek professional help. Ask for counseling to help you find ways how to get over that someone you love.

If you are not comfortable talking to a stranger about your life, you can also get some needed care and support from the people who loves you like your friends and family.

When you start to make yourself believe that there is no chance for both of you to get back together, it would be easier for you to move on. This is the best way you can start your own life and get over your relationship rather than nurture any false hopes that can only make you more miserable.