Hater is an urban term used to describe someone who thumbs their nose at our progress or success. I'm writing this article to help the countless number of people who encounter jealous on their way to success. I hope to give you a better understanding of haters and why it happens.

In this circle of life we operate by our belief of possibility. Any time someone exceeds beyond what we feel is possible; we are shocked and sometimes envious. This is a natural law of human behavior. Jealousy is a drive thru. Sure you didn't order it, but it's in your bag.

Even some of our closes family members display signs of envy at times. Sometimes we detect a bit of distant in their happiness for our achievements. This distant is perceived as jealousy. Friends and family mean well however most can't find happiness in their own life or career. How can they give you something they don't have? Those who abandon their dreams cannot speak life into yours. Can they?

My Last advice, do not allow hatred or jealousy to consume your life. We as human, have a natural instinct to seek refuge from betrayal and aggression. The problem doesn't come by seeking sympathy from our peers. The problem comes, when we choose to dwell on the event. As a result, the hatred begins to dwell in our hearts and minds and we become the hater. You must put the event in your past and move on.