A young boy when asked how he felt on his thirteenth birthday, said, ?But for the reputation everything else is fine.? Teenage brings problems with it for the child and the parents. It is a trying time for all concerned. But, with a better understanding of the situation, you can transform the teenage years of your child into joyful years rather than reel under stress and cause tension all around.

Here is some parenting advice to help you get through.

Adolescence is that time when they decide the type of adult they will ultimately become. Suddenly your children are looking at you differently. And a child you've never had a child behavioral problem with, now doesn't seem to do anything but the exact opposite of what they need to or are told too.

Don't stress, there are some easy and simple ways to make the teenage growing years as painless as possible and provide the positive environment your teen needs to become all they can be as an adult.

Treating your child as an adult essentially means giving more freedom and putting more responsibility on him. When you treat your child as an adult you give him the respect of an equal.

An easy way to do this is to extend curfew, or include them in more adult conversations. If children and adults eat separately during holidays, set a place for your teen at the adult table. Or invent the young adult table, if there are enough similarly aged teenagers.

This way your child can feel that while he or she is not yet an adult, they are not being viewed as a child, either. This bit of parenting advice can head off child behavior and child discipline problems.

Give your teen child discipline decision making power. Let your teen make more child behavior decisions. Let them know you are available for guidance but that the decision is theirs to make. For example, a school trip; let your teen know they are welcome to go or not as they choose, rather than saying they can't go or they have to go.

If your teen has reached the age where he or she is old enough to work, talk to them about getting a part time job. Make sure he or she understands that school is the most important thing he or she is doing in his or her life but encourage him or her to gain some financial freedom. If he or she is working, have him or her be responsible for purchasing school supplies.

As a parent it is your duty to help your child face the real world in every possible way. All you have to keep in mind is that your child may think he has grown up but you have to be there for him, although in the background, so that you are there when he needs you. After all, the real world is so different from the protected environment your child has grown up in.