Women develop strategies, as well, when it comes to attracting a man's attention or interest. Some women are fairly good at it. Some are not. And sometimes all it does is make the man nervous and uncomfortable.

One such strategy that women use is actually bribery. It is not bribery like you typically think of it, but rather bribery where the woman tried to be since, helpful and basically indispensible to the man so that he will begin to fall in love with her and need her.

The second strategy women use is called CONVINCING. This is where you tell a man how you feel about him in order to try to coerce him into proclaiming the same kind of love for you. You can also do this by asking him leading questions, trying to get him to profess his love for you. More than likely - convincing him will only drive him away.

Strategy three that women adopt is to have sex with him in order to create a relationship with him. What most women do not realize is that for a man - sex does not mean you are in a relationship. Sex is sex - it's great, he wants it, but that does not mean that you are exclusive, that he has deep feelings for you or anything other than that.

The thing for most women is that these strategies seem very intuitive. It makes SENSE to be nice to a guy and try to make him need you. It makes sense to a woman to express her feelings in hope that he will reciprocate. And it also makes sense that if you feel so strongly about him that you will give yourself to him, that he should be feeling the same way.

What women do not understand is that the actions do not broadcast the kind of attitude a man would find attractive. In fact, they do quite the opposite - they show him a needy, fearful and uptight kind of woman.

That is totally opposite of what you were trying to accomplish, isn't it? But that is what he sees when he sees these kinds of actions. And that is NOT attractive.

So what DOES attract a man? There are definitely certain attitudes that men find attractive. Try on an attitude that tells him you don't settle for a man, you will not let a man control your life or that you would walk away from a man if he began exhibiting behaviors that you do not approve of.

You can also try showing him that you are comfortable with his friendships with his buddies and would not be a jealous, immature or clingy partner. You can show him that you are mature and your own woman - not a follower or bystander.

So one simple step that YOU can take today to begin to give your love life wings is to start adjusting your own attitudes and strategies with men. Allow them to see you for the mature, independent and capable woman that you are, and your love life will begin to blossom.