You start to think, what is going on, why is he or she so cold and indifferent towards me? Doesn't he or she love me anymore, what happened, and what did I do wrong?

You need to realize that YOU are not the one to blame! If your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend starts a love affair with another person, that was solely THEIR decision. And they are experts in making themselves believe that they are not doing anything wrong!

They convince themselves that if you weren't like this, or if you weren't like that, they wouldn't have to look for sex and love elsewhere. But that is so wrong! Starting a relationship with another person while still in a marriage or relationship, is, and will never be acceptable.

The fact is, that if your spouse is immature enough to think that they can't talk about their worries and concerns with you, THEY are to blame, not YOU! If your partner isn't mature enough to know that you will not live in eternal bliss by only exchanging marital wows with each other, is it YOU who is the big problem in this relationship? The answer to that is an absolute NO!

If you suspect that your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, don't ever confront them directly with your suspicions, because you will only hear lies such as:

Oh, she is just like a my sister, or oh, he's just like a brother to me, that's all, or, it wasn't me! The cell phones must have been crossed with someone else's, or, He's a good friend of my brother. You get the point here.

It is necessary for you to learn how to spot the signs of your partner's infidelity. Strangely enough, most of them fall into the same category. But don't confront them until you have prepared yourself very well verbally, emotionally and legally. Make sure they have no way of lying their way out!