Your wedding should be a celebration of you and your fiancé's love and the seamless union of your cultures. Often, this can be a difficult task as the religious aspect of your traditions and cultures don't always mesh together. To best combine cultures pick those elements that you love and integrate those details into your wedding invitations, reception décor, even your wedding dress and bridal party attire.

A delicate mix

Combining cultures as you plan your wedding isn't always easy. It is important that you, your fiancé and your families are comfortable with the things you are including and those elements you are leaving behind. There is no automatic ‘right' answer, just knowing that you are going to have a wedding experience that is uniquely your own. From your wedding invitations to the reception, you should think about intertwining your personal cultural customs and traditions that will suit you.

Picking the right elements

While it is important to include elements from both of your cultures, you should also be aware of the impact of these elements. Including too many elements, customs and traditions can often be just too much to handle. Not only will you have your hands full with planning and organizing, but too many things can decrease the significance of any one thing. You don't want to have a confusing ceremony or a reception that feels like a multicultural circus. Choose just a few things to pepper into your ceremony and reception and you'll have a tasteful and interesting ceremony.

Start with a well-composed wedding invitation

Your wedding invitation is a great place to start your cultural combining. Since it is a small in size you'll be forced to choose some essential pieces from both cultures to showcase. Your wedding invitation is also a great place to include a note about the cultures you are highlighting and the significance of those cultures to you and your fiancé.

Including elements not necessarily from your culture

There are thousands of wedding traditions and customs that you may choose to use in your ceremony and reception. These elements can have significance in other cultures; they can just be interesting and stylish touches for you. Pick a Celtic knot or a lucky Chinese red for your wedding invitations. Dress your bridesmaids in traditional Lehnga Choli for your bridesmaids for an unexpected and fashionable touch. Your imagination and vision is your only limitation. A classic Jewish tradition, the yicud, when the bride and groom spend a few moments together privately before the reception, is a great idea in any culture.

What is right for your wedding?

There is no black and white answer to what is the absolute right fit for you and your wedding. Make sure you have an idea in your head about what you must include and what you can live without. Discuss this with your fiancé and make sure you're on the same page with regard to the important details – wedding invitation, ceremony, reception accents, etc. Also keep an eye out for trends. You just might be able to have a wedding that is culturally significant to you and stylish beyond your dreams.